Yay! I'm glad this community exists. Thank you for making it! This is a very helpful post and that chart was super helpful, too.
It's also exciting to find something that sounds like it describes how I've long felt about gender in regards to myself and 'my gender' (whatever that is, lmao!) You're making a lot of cobweb-covered things shift around and click together in my dusty little ol' brain over here. How neat!!