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[–] nkat2112@sh.itjust.works 173 points 8 months ago (4 children)

I found this to be a very well-written article about a concept I wasn't previously aware of. Here follow some interesting choice quotes - but I recommend reading the actual article:

When activist Jess Piper heard Alabama Republican senator Katie Britt deliver the GOP response to the State of the Union, she had a visceral reaction. The senator spoke in a breathy voice with a soft and sweet quality ― even as she described horrific acts of sexual violence and murder and painted a dystopian picture of the United States.

For Piper, there was no mistaking that sound, which permeated her childhood in the Bible Belt. Britt was using “fundie baby voice.”

Then more context - conveying submission to male authority:

“I would describe ‘fundie baby voice’ as a woman’s voice that is higher than average in both pitch and breathiness,” said Kathryn Cunningham, a vocologist and assistant professor of theatre and head of acting at the University of Tennessee, Knoxville. “While the average woman’s voice is higher-pitched than the average man’s due to a combination of anatomical and social factors, some women who speak this way seem to be intentionally placing their voices higher than their natural pitch range in order to convey submission to male authority and childlike innocence.”

These changes in voice are deliberate:

Deliberate voice changes are very much a reality for women in fundamentalist Christian communities, noted Tia Levings, author of the upcoming memoir “A Well-Trained Wife: My Escape from Christian Patriarchy.”

“From a young age, we were taught over and over again to modulate our voices,” she said. “It was all about sounding sweet, soft, and childlike. There were very strict gender roles, and women were supposed to never sound angry but keep sweet, obey, dress modestly, speak softly, be very feminine.”

Interesting roots:

This sort of Christian vocal training has roots in Helen Andelin’s 1963 book “Fascinating Womanhood.”

“This book encourages fundamentalist Christian women to sound ‘childlike’ in order to convey submission to male figures,” Cunningham said, noting that there are “references to an idealized voice that a compliant, Christian woman should have.”

I found this quote referenced in the article very remarkable:

“It is important to emphasize in this discussion that women’s voices are always scrutinized and policed. The truth is that we can’t win, no matter how we speak.” - Kathryn Cunningham, vocologist and assistant professor

Of such women in power who use the fundie baby voice, the article goes on to quote the following:

“What they produce is a lot of abuse and subjugation,” Levings added. “And it always stings more when a woman is used as a tool of the patriarchy to promote it. They’re the Aunt Lydias and Serena Joys of the program ― brought in and given power when it suits men, but they will be discarded when it’s no longer useful to those men.”

Toward the end of the article, the very valid warning:

Piper urged those who are interested in the fundie baby voice phenomenon to educate themselves on the Christian nationalist movement in U.S. politics and the Project 2025 agenda. Directing ire toward those in power is more useful than tearing down everyday women for the way they were trained to speak.

[–] APassenger@lemmy.world 43 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Solid recommend at the end.

[–] Pissnpink 35 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (5 children)

I do agree, but my experience with fundie women (Christian women who "know their role") is that yes, there is point where they are victims of this system of belief, but they will NOT think twice about using their proximity to power to victimize/bully/subjugate others, whether it's people of color, lgbtq or anyone not in their bubble.

[–] Hackerman_uwu@lemmy.world 8 points 8 months ago

Angela from The Office.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago

Exactly. One of the most complicating factors in feminism has always been that there have always been means for women to use proximity to men to gain power over others in accordance with the power of those men. For example in the era shortly following the abolition of slavery in the United States women had practically no rights that did not come from their husbands or fathers, but could still get a black man killed by claiming he hit on her.

Some women prefer it that way. In exchange for autonomy they receive a form of alternative authority and are able to abdicate responsibility for the power exerted in their names. If you already wanted what they demand of you, then you have little reason to question the morality involved here and they sell a life that for some is very nice. And it’s not like you’ll need an abortion to save your life or will find your husband getting violent or will have a queer kid. That happens to other people, less holy people, sinners. They’re the ones who are why your life is difficult.

And there’s also the hypocrites. The Phillis Schlafely types. They believe they belong in their place but don’t want to do it so they try to make it mandatory.

[–] JustZ@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

It's like if you change it up and let the kids who never get picked first be the team captains, the very first people they pick will be the people who never picked them. Everyone just wants to be winners.

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[–] nieceandtows@programming.dev 32 points 8 months ago

That is hauntingly fascinating

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 17 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I’d heard that voice, but didn’t know it was actively taught. What the actual fuck‽ Also why the fuck do these people want their wives to sound childlike‽ Maybe it’s just the lesbian in me talking but as I get older (not even 30 yet) I increasingly want my women more womanly. Give me an opinionated 40 year old over an insecure 19 year old every time. Every time I learn about fundamentalists pushing unnatural youth onto women I’m reminded of how I’ve heard that child molestation is more often about power than desire. And they act as though it’s all just nature, but if it was what was natural they wouldn’t have to put so much effort into reinforcing these hierarchies and forcing dominant women into servile roles and punishing men who are insufficiently dominant.

[–] JustZ@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago

Me too, I thought it was organic. Like they develop their own slang, why not their own accent?

[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

It's really disgusting how we still have these ridiculous "norms" to deal with. In opposition to the baby voice we have women who need to modulate their voice to be deeper if they want to be taken more seriously in "professional" settings. It's all very stupid...

[–] prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works 72 points 8 months ago (4 children)

Listening to Love Line back in the day and they could almost 100% predict who had been victimized as a child based on “little girl voice” which seems awfully similar to me.

[–] interrobang@lemmy.blahaj.zone 66 points 8 months ago

fundie

victimized as a child

That venn diagram is a circle.

[–] agent_flounder@lemmy.world 15 points 8 months ago

Ugh that's deeply disturbing.

[–] heyou@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago

Drew's goin for his wallet!

[–] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 4 points 8 months ago

Yeah, and Drew claimed that he could ID "marijuana addicts" based upon how they laugh. The guy's a nut job.

[–] sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz 42 points 8 months ago (3 children)

Sorry for the YT Shorts link, but here's a video of comparing Katie Britt's previous speaking voice and whatever the hell was going on during the SotU response. It's so bizarre.

[–] Hackerman_uwu@lemmy.world 12 points 8 months ago

Honestly the “after” sounds like some sort of surrealist comedy skit like out of Portlandia or something.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Damn, that makes it sound even less likely that it really happened. How was this a good idea?

[–] Subverb@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

It wasn't a good idea. She was over-coached to pieces. I've heard pundits on the right and left say it's a shame what she did because by all rights she's a smart and capable woman.

Edit: I didn't say I agreed with her politics. Downvote if you want, but this kind of marginalization of a smart woman on either side of the conversation erodes the condition of all women.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I don’t know anything about her besides that one speech, and it’s not a good look

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[–] yumpsuit@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago

Shor's blood, the Thu'um!

[–] tsonfeir@lemm.ee 23 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Any man who likes that voice wants to fuck a child.

[–] almar_quigley@lemmy.world 11 points 8 months ago

I honestly couldn’t listen to the YouTube video comparison of her real and fake voice the whole way through. It was so hard to hear.

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[–] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 15 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Reminds me of the "Mormon General Authority" voice. If you've ever had the displeasure of having to sit through 8 hours of Mormon general conference talks over two days, twice a year, you know exactly the voice I'm talking about. And if you're an ex-Mormon, someone trying to use that voice on you will give you a visceral feeling.

I wasn't raised fundie, so I didn't recognize it when I heard clips of the speech. But I appreciate the anger from the people that were.

[–] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 9 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

You just brought back my memories of hearing the emotional wet lip smack

[–] Thcdenton@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago

Holy shit there a name for that now. I still use after years of being an exjw. Its so fucking cringe.

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