Hi! Trans person here. Your heart is in the right place, but this post is poorly written. You haven't even given examples of how this is currently/could be applied. Some people are just that uneducated about trans people. If they're leading questions that invalidate us, sure. But otherwise what's the harm? For 196 there's no reason to ask about that stuff but the whole instance?? Your call in the end but I can think of a few ways this could go bad just from prior experience in other communities.
this post was submitted on 20 Jul 2023
1874 points (100.0% liked)
196
16552 readers
1812 users here now
Be sure to follow the rule before you head out.
Rule: You must post before you leave.
founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
Not on your instance but it's so good to see unequivocal inclusion and support for the trans community. There should be no room for bigotry of any kind.
You tell em Ada!
Trans rights!
But muh discussion with both sides! 🤨🤔 That's not very tolerant of you, guess we know whose the real baguette now. 😤
Fuck yeah 🏳️⚧️
I support!
Full support here 🏳️⚧️
Genuinely thank you. This community just existing as it does has already helped me a fucking weird amount.
Yes, but….I don’t even know what 196 is. It shows up on my feed and is sometimes funny. I’m just clueless, not a bigot.
196 is a random content community with the simple rule of "post before you leave", so its filled with memes ^.^
It's also a very trans friendly place. But there was a thread recently with a bunch of "just asking questions", and "trans people are just oversensitive", and "I'm not a bigot, but most trans woman have a chip on their shoulder so I am no longer friends with them" kinda stuff, on a post a (trans) mod made complaining about people reporting a pretty questionable comment.
Even if people disagreed over the original comment, the thread about it ended up being transphobic as fuck.
So presumably the admins of lemmy.blahaj.zone (a trans-run instance, who host this, main, c/196 community, on the promise it would be very trans supportive) noticed the lack of moderation of that transphobic thread and are doing something about it ^.^
load more comments
(1 replies)
load more comments
(3 replies)
I used to be on the original 196 two years ago, cause it really was 99% supportive. But it has simply devolved into fetishization over time.
Basically, if you're not in their bubble of bullies they'll bully you out of the instance and you don't even need to be offensive for that.
load more comments
(1 replies)
Be friend of Blåhaj
I’ll aggressively guzzle to that