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I have always loved to read. Beyond just a pastime, books have been my friends, an escape, solace. But there are 2 that have left lasting impressions above and beyond the others. As a child, it was King of the Wind by Marguerite Henry. As an adult, it is The Good Soldiers by David Finkel.

I’ve enjoyed so many books over the years and most have stuck with me. It’s hard to pinpoint exactly why these 2 surpassed the others because many books tell great stories, have great characters, and are beautifully written.

They’re obviously very different books but emotionally they are the same. They affected me so deeply and the memories are so rich, I feel I’ve actually lived them both.

The follow up to Good Soldiers, Thank You for Your Service, is more well known because it was made into a movie with Miles Teller. I have read it and it’s wonderful, but The Good Soldiers transported me to Iraq, put a rifle in my hand, and killed my friends.

I am looking for books like this. Any genre, any age group. Any book that is so ingrained you feel like it’s a part of your life story.

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[–] xPastromi@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

No Longer Human and Notes from Underground.

[–] Abandoned_Manor@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

I am not recommending you the book cause that book got triggering things mentioned, like a vivid sucide attempt and a couple of self harm stuff. I was in 7th or 8th gradeand i read this book by Preity Shenoy "Life is what you make it" and it left a mark on me... It might be cause of my age... The book was about mental health, how to tackle it all and the most important thing it does that it ends on a note where things weren't good but they weren't as bad as before and it resonated with me somehow. It made me awfully optimistic, it taught me something that was precious. I never feel mentally sick, yes obviously there were a llot of low times in my life but still in those i worked as hard as i could and sometimes it worked and sometimes it didn't but i never felt too bad about it.

It was a weird book, or maybe it was the time when i read it...

[–] No_Longer_A_Menace@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Cain, by Jose Saramago, is probably the most influential book I've ever read. It completely turned my view of religious works (even when viewed as literature and not holy writ) on its head.

Other works that have had profound influence on me:

The Cave - Saramago

The Gospel According to Jesus Christ - Saramago

Something Happened - Joseph Heller

The Plague - Albert Camus

[–] drunkvirgil@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

You would like The Temple of Iconocalsts

[–] nancy-reisswolf@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Sophie's World by Jostein Gaarder

No Longer Human by Osamu Dazai

Angélique: Marquise of the Angels by Anne Golon

in no particular order.

[–] becomingCynical101@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

All the light we cannot see - Anthony Doerr

Memory Police - Yoko Ogawa

My Feudal Lord - Tehmina Durrani (accidentally read it, maybe I was too young for it. The horrors of the book stayed with me.)

The Ibis trilogy - Amitav Ghosh (It's such a complex and beautifully written series with very real emotions and historical references. Makes me think about our world even now.)

[–] tolkienfan2759@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Works of history.

Thucydides - History of the Peloponnesian War

Urofsky - Louis. D. Brandeis: A Life

Rakove - Original Meanings: Politics and Ideas in the Making of the Constitution

Appleman - East of Chosin: Entrapment and Breakout in Korea

Fisher - Paul Revere's Ride

Murphy - Wild Bill: The Legend and Life of William O. Douglas

Akbar - Tinderbox: The Past and Future of Pakistan

Massie - Dreadnought: Britain, Germany, and the Coming of the Great War

[–] nicklovin508@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Hatchet by Gary Paulson is the novel and author that opened me up to a lifetime of reading.

[–] wmbrow2@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Absolutely agree. Anytime I look back on what sparked my interest in reading it is this. It opened me to a wave of so many new interests.

[–] No-Desk-1467@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

I carried a weathered copy of The King of the Wind as a support book from grade three to six pretty much. It is an all time favorite and you're right - I'm not quite sure why this one stood out among all the horse books I read as a child. But I'll take a stab at it. Sham is a great horse protagonist, maybe in part because he is always an underdog and never has a famous career. His greatness is like a secret and that feels both relatable and vindicating when we know so many famous horses are descended from him. It probably also hit right in terms of being a serious story without being hard to read. I could read it before I was going to slog through Black Beauty or even The Black Stallion. But it wasn't about young girls inexplicably bonding with race horses (which I loved, don't get me wrong - I had a long go with the Thoroughbred series) and it had a richer world to get lost in.

Sham muscling in to mate with the prize mare instead of the puffed up stallion that was planned for it is such a gleeful moment of triumph. Kind of odd that this was the highlight of the book for a third grader, but there it is. You're rooting for him so hard, and this is one of the very few 'wins' he ever gets, and he does it on pure style. Do the famous racehorses come from that pairing? I can't remember now!

[–] oh_please_god_no@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Catcher In The Rye, because it was probably the first book I had to read for school that I genuinely wanted to read. I think it may have been the book that started it all for me.

[–] krimunism@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Toll the Hounds - Steven Erikson

Its a very sad book about how grief affects people and intertwines with love, and how we can move past it. I'd honestly recommend it to people even without prior series context

[–] LJFootball@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

A common suggestion, but Lonesome Dove is the book I was most engrossed in.

In terms of ones that have had an impact on my life in general, Stoner by John Williams changed my perspective on how meaningful life is.

[–] CoralSkinRot@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago (2 children)

This Boy's Life - Wolff

Factotum - Bukowski

Last Exit to Brooklyn - Selby

Get in the Van - Rollins

Memnoch (the Devil) - Rice

[–] I_who_have_no_need@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Wow I think this is the first time I've seen Tobias Wolff mentioned here. Been a while since I read This Boys Life. Good book but for me I would pick In Pharoah's Army. The characters seemed more vivid but maybe less relatable than growing up with a single mother in a hardscrabble rural backwater.

[–] remymartinia@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

For Bukowski, Notes of a Dirty Old Man. I unapologetically love that book.

[–] preaching-to-pervert@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I recognized King of the Wind from the image in this post - a magical, amazing book. Thanks for reminding me!

[–] ATX2EPK@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[–] pufferfish_hoop@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Me too! I dropped my copy in the bathtub when I was a kid and it’s all wrinkled.

[–] wren24@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Books I read as a kid that stuck with me...

The Hounds of the Morrigan by Pat O'Shea

The Iron Ring by Lloyd Alexander

The Castle in the Attic by Elizabeth Winthrop

The Girl Who Owned a City by O. T. Nelson

Downsiders by Neal Shusterman

Great horse protagonist books like Beyond Rope and Fence by David Grew and Blitz by Hetty Burlingame Beatty, and great animal protagonist books in general like Call of the Wild

[–] flowersfromjupiter@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Here I go recommending Garth Nix again, but I first read the Old Kingdom trilogy when I was about thirteen and it affected me so strongly I still re-read them regularly more than twenty years later. The way the books presented death as a natural progression of life - something to be saddened by but ultimately to be accepted - I think influenced me beyond what I really realised at the time. Also the concept that some things are bigger than you, but you can still make a difference - that's a message worth hearing.

[–] grainia99@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

This is an amazing series. It took me over a year to get my partner to read it (but that's a kids book...). I was pretty gloating when they loved it.

[–] RiversSecondWife@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Dune - Frank Herbert, changed my view of the world when I was about 20, my uni professor had recommended it.

Read The Black Stallion (Walter Farley) at my grandparents when I was 8 or so, ended up falling in love and reading the whole series. I now own that original hardback along with the paperbacks I collected. It was by far my favorite series ever and I felt like I grew up riding every step on horseback with Alec.

May add more later, just on break atm so back to work.

[–] DonnieSunset@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Can you elaborate how Dune did change your view of the world?

[–] Anonymouse8888888@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Go Ask Alice - Anonymous

[–] hella-phants@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Tuck Everlasting, the Secret Life of Bees, A Monster Calls, the Great Gatsby, All the Bright Places, and Perks of Being a Wallflower

[–] sucktheheads@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

The Kin of Ata are Waiting for You by Dorothy Bryant Watership Down by Richard Adams Wind Up Bird Chronicles by Haruki Murakami (and Hard Boiled Wonderland) Little, Big by John Crowley Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis All of the books by Edward Eager Animal Dreams by Barbara Kingsolver (and Poisonwood Bible)

There's so many!

[–] cannotfoolowls@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

It's a divisive trilogy but The Magicians by Lev Grossman. There were a couple of lines in those books that were lines I really needed to hear at that point in time.

“Stop looking for the next secret door that is going to lead you to your real life. Stop waiting. This is it: there's nothing else.”

in particular was one that hit hard.

[–] Substantial_Net_2813@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

The Snow Leopard by Peter Matthiesson

[–] BambiLoveSick@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

All of them.

If you are a masterpiece, you do not question yourself which action of the master crafter madevyoub a masterpiece, you know:

It was all of them

[–] Asher_the_atheist@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

I feel like a few things will really draw me in with a book and make it stand out, but I feel like one of the big intangibles that really matters is having a certain almost musical rhythm and flow to how it is written. And I don’t mean flowery language (hell, Dr Seuss manages excellent flow through silly, simple rhymes, and I was argue that this is a big reason why they have remained so popular). I mean that there is something about how it is written (the words, the transitions, the structure) that moves according to such a natural rhythm that it draws you into the story and out of yourself. Then, once you’ve been lulled into forgetting that you are reading at all, the story itself is free to impact you as if everything was actually really happening to you. Of course, now that I’m trying to think about it, I’m having a hard time coming up with a really good example of this. But yeah, if I can get caught up in the flow of the words and story, I’m going to get much more immersed and the book will end up sticking with me more.

[–] Kazak7@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Oryx and Crake by Margaret Atwood. Solidified my love for biological sciences (and post apocalyptic fiction)

[–] ZucchiniPleasant376@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

All Quiet on the Western Front by Remarque. There’s no glory in dying in a rich man’s war.

Blood Meridian by McCarthy. An unnerving look at the baseline of rough human beings.

I might need to look at some more positive stuff 😬

[–] RealWanheda@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Think Again by Adam Grant is without doubt the most important non-fiction book on the planet.

Fiction: the count of Monte cristo.

[–] Fickle-Improvement44@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Steppenwolf by Herman Hesse. It literally saved my life in my 20s by letting me know healing was possible

[–] remymartinia@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Siddhartha by Hesse. I annotated the f out of that book.

[–] Bucky2015@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Everybody poops

[–] rosetrail@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

I didn’t like Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro when we read it in class but after finishing the book, I bawled for about an hour thinking about it. I had to write an essay about it and it just hit me while writing it how much the plot had touched me without even realising it.

[–] Rckid@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Under the whispering door - TJ Kline

I was just diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer 2 years ago and was not much of a reader. Since my diagnosis, I don't leave my house without at least 2 books in my backpack. I am at over 100 books this year!! But this one hit me hard. It deals with death in such a positive way.......easily my favorite book that I've ever read.

[–] jmmorart317@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Slaughter House Five-Kurt Vonnegut. I read the book soon after my father unexpectedly passed away. It opened my mind to the concept of parallel dimensions and timelines. So even though he’s was gone from my world, he was existing in a parallel universe and this helped my grieving process.

[–] Iamamyrmidon@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Confederacy of Dunces.

[–] cust71@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas. No, I didn't become some drug seeking journalist, but it turned me on to a different view of, well, everything. I was reading nothing but Stephen King and history books, fresh out of 12 years of catholic school, and this book broke the mental dam. I started reading Irvine Welsh, Kerouac, anything off the beaten path, compared to what I was used to reading and internalizing. It really opened my mind, and made me more of an accepting person, something the previous 12 years did not.

[–] Bookssmellneat@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Gonzo journalism, it’s a life changer.

[–] kDub361@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Stranger In A Strange Land - Robert Heinlein

Had me fall back into love with reading after a long hiatus. I have always enjoyed sci-fi and there were so many cool concepts in that book that you really needed to use your imagination to appreciate them. When the Martian man is told to go hide in the bottom of the pool, while they are being invaded and he discovers he can astral project was one of the coolest scenes that I have ever read.

[–] Ulura@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Mao's Last Dancer, I was 12 and it was my first autobiography. It showed me just how vastly different some kids grew up compared to me and that the world was far bigger than I ever realised.

[–] Shabdhere@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

For me, it's To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee. At first, I started at a languid pace but slowly, I fell in love with the language and the characters of Scout and her brother Jem. It resonated with me. Honestly, I found it hard to read, but thanks to my sister who encouraged me, I got the spirit and read it twice. The book explores themes of racial prejudice and the persistence of outdated attitudes and beliefs in certain areas. The character of Atticus, for me, has been the most impactful in my life. It taught me how to look at things with a positive perspective and see good in others.

[–] kateinoly@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

King of the Wind is such a wonderful read.

[–] station_terrapin@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Surprised not to see "The Brothers Karamazov" by Fiodor Dostoevsky mentioned yet.

Outstanding take on the meaning of life, on bad and evil, religion, the human soul and psychology. And I will never forget the ending, an optimistic beacon to help me through the bad times, and to make me remain humble and kind during the good ones.

[–] wise_sprit@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

Eleanor and Park by Rainbow Rowell, it was a truly memorable read. Ill cherish it forever, it had the vibe of A Thousand Years by Christinna Perri being played in the background.

[–] jcmacon@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

I love Jonathan Livingston Seagull by Richard Bach. One of my favorite books ever. Released the same year I was born, when I was younger I felt that Bach wrote that book specifically for me. I've read it hundreds of times in the last 45ish years. I've given copies to each of my children, although they don't have the same feelings about the book as I did at 7-8 years old reading it for the first time by myself. That book started the foundation that I would build my life upon. I still have the original copy I was given, although it is not the copy I currently read.

Richard Bach also wrote Illusions: The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah and as a young man, starting out in my career my very first professional mentor gave me a copy of this book and it changed the way that I viewed the world. I've only read this book dozens of times in the past 30 years, but it is still one of my favorites.

I think it's time for me to give each of these books another read.

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