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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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[–] FuryFaceofDoom@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yes I am a little sad. I just deleted my account(s) this morning. 7 years on Reddit, and it was my go-to platform. But it is clear that Reddit does not care about its users, so I won't be using Reddit anymore

[–] stoned_blahaj@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, reddit has always been my favorite type of social media. Especially being able to choose your own communities and being free of most algorithm shenanigans is what made me love it. I hope they turn around, and otherwise I hope Lemmy becomes more active and popular. It would suck to lose such an unique type of social media.

[–] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I loved reddit for a few years at the beginning, but after that I became disillusioned and found myself waiting for a better alternative to come around for a long ass time. I even made an account on voat and the users were just terrible people.

But yeah, I spent a fuckton of time on reddit and I'm hoping to do the same on lemmy, with the difference being that I hope that lemmy will enrich my life and give me the opportunity to enrich the lives of others, whereas reddit was often a toxic cesspool that made us angry and miserable.

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[–] unlink2@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

Not at all, I'm glad open alternatives are getting attention!

[–] aqua@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

On one side yes, on the other side I see it as an opportunity to spend more time being active and or outside doing things that are truly good for myself.

[–] MeatCastle@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I sucks but I did the same thing with Digg when it turned to shit.

[–] Oabeaw@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

The sad part is potentially losing all the information, communities, etc. You can pretty much expect any company to go bad, so it makes no sense to get attached to a company.

[–] Batbro@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I'm excited, I've been fediverse curious for a while. This gives the power back to the people

[–] Viktorian@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

Not really, I just miss some of the subs that I used to frequent. Most of them already exist somewhere in the Fediverse and just need to gain some traction. The other thing I miss is my app, RedReader, but the author has plans to extend it to support Lemmy or similar in the future so I'm good.

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Reddit peaked like eight or ten years ago. I am so ready for this. I have been doing everything in my power (completely ineffectively) to get the people and communities I care about to bridge to a libre network.

[–] harbo@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nah I used Reddit for 10 years and had been getting sick of it for the last few. I got started with the Fediverse with Mastodon at the end of last year and I am in love with the potential, especially after finding out about Lemmy. I really hope this system hits mainstream appeal.

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[–] mook@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago

Um. Yeah. Taking a break from it for a few days during the blackout. Checking out the fediverse and am loving lemmy, pixelfed, and mastodon. Just joined kbin today but am a bit confused about it because I haven't found a mobile app that supports it. There are a ton of subreddits that I am missing incredibly, but you know it'll be all right. I'm hoping lemmy grows a bit, but not too big. I just enjoy a string of random posts.

[–] fne8w2ah@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

8 years of LTL on old reddit and RiF, and it's a weird mixture of grief and freedom at the same time.

[–] Seigest@lemmy.ca 0 points 1 year ago

I feel that. Reddit's bit of an addiction for me. I don't use other social media so it became my one stop shop for news, inspiration, and to connect with all the little niche intrest.

Oddly, I was frequently just doom scrolling r/all to see what was going on the the world. And when I ran out of revent stuff if just sort by new. Super unhealthy behavior.

Hopfully this transition will help me slow down a bit and get back to reality.

[–] Protegee9850@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah. Here’s hoping this is just the beginning of something better

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[–] seesaw@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago

I'm permanently suspended anyway, there's no way back. They somehow find me if I create a new account lol

[–] theDuesentrieb@feddit.de 0 points 1 year ago

It is just sad to see another good thing, build up collectivly by people in their spare time comes down due to cooperate greed.

I will use reddit as long as the subs I'm mainly engaging in haven't migrated and as long as there is a secure & a/tracking free way of accessing Reddit, even if it is desktop only

Bit then again I'm happy that truly free and non commercial alternatives get the attention they deserve

[–] eifer@urbanists.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@Acetamide I don't understand why though. We live in a capitalist system, and therefore Reddit has to make money in order to survive. On the current path, Reddit won't exist AT ALL. So we either get a Reddit with some fees that devs don't like, or no Reddit at all.

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[–] fairysnuff@lemmy.ml -1 points 1 year ago

It's so stupid that people would react so emotionally as to relate their feelings to a breakup. This should be a concern to each and every one of you. It's a website. You can get your dopamine hit elsewhere, with TikTok and other sources being still available.

The rage from the Reddit community has been surprising but this broken form of emotional regulation is embarrassing.

[–] unfazedbeaver@lemmy.one -1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I miss what I lack, but reddit was also going stagnant. Time to build something greater. Decentralized, but moderated, social media is an interesting idea.

Lemmys devs' political... "Leanings" sure concern me though

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[–] teuast@lemmy.world -3 points 1 year ago

Sometimes it's time for a change.

[–] fairysnuff@lemmy.ml -4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

It's so stupid that people would react so emotionally as to relate their feelings to a breakup. This should be a concern to each and every one of you. It's a website. Reacting this way is delusional. You can get your dopamine hit elsewhere, with TikTok and other sources being still available, so why the breakdown?

The rage from the Reddit community has been surprising but this broken form of emotional regulation is embarrassing.

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