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[–] ___@lemm.ee 21 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (2 children)

I’m going to go on a less extreme take. They’ve been told from childhood they live in the land of opportunity, yet they work in dead end jobs or working fields.

They see money flying away every paycheck they live week to week on while being pumped propaganda (that people in suburbs and urban areas don’t see) that shows people who look different from them getting gov’t housing and getting programs funded with their tax dollars.

The same party they now demonize supports ridiculous looking gay parades that show a mentality they don’t understand, so they begin to hate. They wake up morning after morning in the same place with no change, and they stew and stew and stew.

So now they basically give up and see a hyper-masculine wannabe saying all the things against those who are different, and the long encrusted anger starts spewing out.

Most of the comments here are ignorant and hate filled against the wrong people. It’s not the MAGA supporters that did this, it’s the system. We need to stop polarizing ourselves with hatred and point the finger at those truly responsible. Not the poor (literallly) voters who are so dejected and living in decay that they just don’t give a rats ass anymore.

The more you hate the other side, the less you see the truth. The goal is to make you hate them. The goal is to make them hate you. You can’t define an entire person in a paragraph.

[–] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 4 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I think MAGA represents to Republicans what progressives like Bernie and AOC represent to Democrats. Republicans were able to reimagine their party into a form that isn't just going to follow the status quo that, like you said, has led to a stagnant existence for average Americans over the last 50+ years. And stagnant is probably a nice way of putting it, since buying power has essentially disappeared, on top of wages barely moving.

So Trump comes in, he says drain the swamp, and you hear that to mean the whole machine, everyone who, for the last 50 years (and some folks have been involved in that government for a good chunk of that 50 years, just perpetuating that status quo) has allowed the rich to get richer at the expense of the working middle class.

And so you toss on your blinders. You're not necessarily a bigot, but you believe social issues are a distraction from actual problems (i.e., ones that affect you directly), and you vote in a way that you hope will better your life. It's hard to blame someone, especially someone just exhausted from grinding through their shitty life, for thinking about themselves. It's not the right way to think, but I get it.

[–] Makhno@lemmy.world 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

And so you toss on your blinders. You're not necessarily a bigot, but you believe social issues are a distraction from actual problems

Tbf, identity politics are 100% used as a smokescreen

[–] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

You won't hear me disagree.

[–] boonhet@lemm.ee 2 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

This is pretty much it, in my view.

Americans need to watch the Estonian-Georgian movie Tangerines before demonizing "the other side". Besides an anti-war movie, it's also about a movie about how two sworn enemies realize the other is also human.

A good clip to watch if you're not interested in watching the entire (relatively short) film

[–] Glent@lemmy.ca 3 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

They are children developmentally. They dont think. They have emotions and react based on those emotions. Any words are ad hoc rationalizations of those emotions and those reactions. Excuses. If you want a look into the maga mind look at 7-12 year olds.

[–] leftzero@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 15 hours ago

Revenge. 🤷‍♂️

[–] billwashere@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I’ve wondered this exact question. How does any of this evil fascist shit benefit the average Trump voter.

Trade tariffs just make things like durable goods more expensive.

Deporting migrant workers is going to make food more expensive.

Killing all references to Trans people doesn’t do anything but hurt the Trans folks.

Killing all references to climate change is just going to eventually destroy the whole planet (well just our existence on it.. the planet will be fine eventually).

Killing the Dept of Education is just going to make us all dumber.

DOGE is just a meme dept whose soul purpose seems to be to let Elon enact his revenge.

RFK2 gets in charge of all the countries medicine and vaccines and bans it all just in time for Pandemic 2, Electric Boogaloo.

So basically things get a lot more expensive, the rich get richer, lots of people die, and the world becomes a generally more shitty place. Yay!!! Let’s Go Brandon!!

It's not like these people are open to reasoned debate. The only answer is there is something broken inside and fuck if I know what.

[–] CriticalThought@lemmy.world 4 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

OP is asking an interesting and important question. While I don’t claim it as definitive, there was an insightful article written in 2016 that attempted to address the question head on: How Half Of America Lost Its F**king Mind

[–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 1 points 17 hours ago

Already some of you have gotten angry, feeling this gut-level revulsion at any attempt to excuse or even understand these people. After all, they're hardly people, right? Aren't they just a mass of ignorant, rageful, crude, cursing, spitting subhumans?

It feels good to dismiss people, to mock them, to write them off as deplorables. But you might as well take time to try to understand them, because I'm telling you, they'll still be around long after Trump is gone.

This is basically Lemmy's whole MO LMAO 🤣

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

If it were actually country vs city why donald trump?

[–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 1 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Bro did you even read the article

I'm failing to see where it refutes my argument.

[–] paequ2@lemmy.today 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

A MAGA I know told me this is all worth it because he doesn't want his son to know gay people exist and wants revenge on the people who told him he can't say "Merry Christmas" anymore...

[–] Pulptastic@midwest.social 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

So straw man arguments and a misunderstanding of sexuality.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 1 points 17 hours ago

Oooh, big words there fella. What are you, educated or something?

[–] WrenFeathers@lemmy.world 39 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They will 100% sacrifice their own happiness and rights if they know it’s hurting people who live their lives is ways they don’t like.

This isn’t an exaggeration.

[–] finkrat@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They literally want bloodshed and the world to burn

This is conservative vengeance

And everyone is going to suffer from it

[–] w3dd1e@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago

I realized this during the 2016 election. People always say they are voting against their own interests, but their only real interest is to spite someone else. Hurting other people is a win, for them.

[–] militaryintelligence@lemmy.world 45 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It hurts people they think are lesser, such as LGBTQ and people of color. Racism and bigotry are very much alive in the USA. They would eat a shit sandwich if they thought a lib would smell their breath. Hate is all they know.

[–] Retro_unlimited@lemmy.world 48 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I normally do not talk politics with people I know, but this one person said they like trump because: “all I know is when he was president, I did good financially”.

I tried to tell him that the government is slow to enact things so he did good because the previous president. He didnt want to hear that and dismissed it.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

If that's all he knows he doesn't know very much.

[–] tacosplease@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago

My cousin said the exact same thing.

They don't know shit, but they still vote with such confidence. It's maddening.

[–] Professorozone@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago

Like most MAGA.

[–] orcrist@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago

Remember that they accurately believed the DNC were horrible. They stopped Hillary. They stopped Biden and Harris. Good for them? Kinda, not really though.

... We know Trump is worse. Far worse. But they saw a legitimate threat, a group of people who were not going to make their lives better, and they took some kind of action to stop them.

And then lots of bigotry. Can't forget that.

[–] IronKrill@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Check r/conservative and you get a fair idea.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I do. There is no information there i couldn't find written on a bathroom wall.

[–] IronKrill@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 day ago

That makes sense, it's probably the same people writing both messages.

[–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

They say it all the time. You just have to hear, and more important, listen to them

About 70% of reps think the government deficit is too high. About 45% of Dems think the same. Both have been, interestingly, increasing yearly.

Widespread, 60% of voting age adults in USA think the government spends too much "on shit nobody cares about". My quote.

Because people want the spending on medical care, education, science, social security, helping the needed and so on. Polling shows it.

But this has to come at a cost.

Dems want a bigger state apparatus behind all this.

Reps want an efficient, smaller one behind this.

Interesting as well , a lot of people, like 40%, want more spend in security forces.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

if you’re going to make that point you need to mention the pattern of unfunded tax cuts over the last couple decades.

Yes the deficit is way too high, but also yes funding is too low on important things like safety nets, human services, infrastructure, long term societal advance. Most importantly, yes the unfunded tax cuts focusing on the wealthy and corporation of the last few decades is the real issue

............. no one believes trump will deliver a smaller government. If they do they haven't been paying attention.

This use to just be a libertarian thing, too. So, you can say they are united in this cause but could I really ask any MAGA person and this is what they will tell me?

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

they want to be openly fascist

[–] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 23 points 1 day ago

"We made people we don't like fucking miserable for a bit"

Ultimately the kind of person that goes all in on a cult like MAGA could lose everything to shitty policy or because their great leader started a war or smth -- But they'll still reason it was worth it because all those s were put in their place.

[–] UncleGrandPa@lemmy.world 48 points 1 day ago (2 children)

if you ask a hundred of them..

you will get a hundred different answers.

they voted because it made them feel good and addressed their anger. not for any rational reasons. it's why they are so surprised at what is going on.

they had NO IDEA what they were voting for or why they were voting.

[–] GoofSchmoofer@lemmy.world 2 points 22 hours ago

True.

One conservative acquaintance voted for trump to bring Jesus to the country and to stop abortion.

Another voted for trump because they worship money and believe that another trump administration will help him get richer.

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[–] Breve@pawb.social 28 points 1 day ago

Crabs in a bucket. They don't care if things get worse for them as long as they inflict the same suffering on everyone else.

[–] ArchmageAzor@lemmy.world 37 points 1 day ago

MAGA doesn't know.

They're fearful, hateful, instinctive idiots who are more afraid of being proven wrong than anything. The definition of ride or die.

[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

They think all of the gov'ment was corrupt and bad, so they're cheering for the destruction of all gov'ment.

[–] yourFanatic@sh.itjust.works 29 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Many years ago, I was at a friend's house and his parents were watching Bush on Faux News. Friend said, "We're loyal Republicans. We'd rather have an idiot in office than a Democrat."

Edit: Before the inauguration, I got back in touch with another Friend who went to a few protests but converted to maga because he started listening to the JRE podcast and whatever the algorithm also recommended. We know the type of influence that jre guy has on vulnerable minds. The podcast host literally twisted his mind 180 degrees.

Edit 2: I'm not sure that I consider them friends anymore as they would rather have their guy in office and not care that people like me get screwed over.

[–] ozoned@lemmy.world 75 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've talked to friends that were very excited Trump won. Recently tried having an open conversation with someone that left my community afterwards over the conversations because I didn't come to his side.

They just believe it'll be better. What better? They don't know. They can't verbalize, because they're told it's terrible now and will be better.

They believe Trump isn't a criminal, didn't incite violence on Jan 6, the woke people are out to get them, etc. I've literally asked people to define "woke" for me when they use it that way. They can't. They don't know. They're not bad people, they're brainwashed at this point.

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[–] meyotch@slrpnk.net 63 points 1 day ago (12 children)

The way it is playing out in my family has led me to have to totally reevaluate my perception of my own father.

He is a generally kind man. He stayed with my mom for two decades as she declined with Parkinson’s. He took good care of her when so many people might have ghosted.

But based on his inability to see the danger here to things he himself values, I can no longer think of him as a good man. He has always valued knowledge and reason yet he swallowed the cat-eating crap out of Ohio in spite of the clear bullshit of it.

He is Mormon and very faithful. So I don’t know what he gets out of this all, except that it has required me to grieve him before his passing.

He is not actually a good person I am afraid, but he is very obedient. Learning that distinction is very painful. He does not possess the moral clarity to know the difference between what is legal/popular and what is right.

I always idolized my dad as a child because he was in so many ways a good father. We will probably never speak again.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I have a brother who leans conservative, but not part of the cult. He is generally a good guy but a combination of being surrounded by conservatives and believing too much of what he reads online.

He’s an engineer at an old time manufacturer and especially condemns DEI hires. I have no way of judging whether they really do hire primarily for reasons other than merit, or if he has a limited perspective informed mostly by his peers, or if it’s really a generational problem as he’s part of the old timers being replaced by upstarts.

[–] meyotch@slrpnk.net 2 points 15 hours ago

It’s probably partly generational. I mean the old guard got pensions and we get wtevs.

People who aren’t in leadership often have no idea how to judge actual merit anyway. Especially among engineers who often develop very myopic views informed by their tech specialties. I am often gob-smacked by the incredibly stupid ideas otherwise brilliant engineers have about how the world works.

So sadly folks like your brother are probably feeling validated for their racist feelings right now.

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[–] Objection@lemmy.ml 1 points 22 hours ago

Why, the same thing everyone gets from voting: stopping the other side.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hurting their perceived enemies.

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[–] radix@lemmy.world 120 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Causing a complete collapse of society to own the libs.

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[–] BlameThePeacock@lemmy.ca 95 points 2 days ago (4 children)

They don't all agree on anything. Logic and reason aren't part of the requirements for MAGA.

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[–] Briaaahn@lemm.ee 14 points 1 day ago

They're too deep to take it back now they gotta go full nazi and act like everyone else is the problem

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