It is indeed true that the overall mechanism of handling widgets is bothersome.
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Just install the widget first, then add it to the panel.
Think of the extra steps as an NPC guiding you back along the proper path for trying to do it in the wrong order.
It doesn't matter how these things are configured, you'll have extra steps if you insist on doing them in the wrong order.
[edit] Why does order matter? Because permissions. Why do permissions matter? Because fundamental OS security.