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[–] YungOnions@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 hours ago (1 children)
[–] jeena@piefed.jeena.net 4 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

After coming back from a year of parental leave I didn't lose my job.

My previous project came to an end just before I went on parental leave and the company couldn't secure new projects locally.

But because I was involved ipartially in a different department before, that department secured a internal budget for me as a Subject Matter Expert.

Now I'm advising on that topic and was also brought in to a big internal project, so my job is secured for some time now.

For me it's extra difficult because I moved to a different country and have a really hard time learning the language, which is a must to get a different job here.

[–] Huckledebuck@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 hours ago

You're important enough to keep around! Keep up the good work!

[–] RatzChatsubo@lemm.ee 10 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Gave a girl anal for the 1st time today

[–] Huckledebuck@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 hours ago

I hope you greased it up good for her. Wait to go!

[–] grysbok@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I took all my meds on time, and so did my dog.

Oh! I also baked a pizza and it was really tasty. Pup didn't get pizza, but did get oven-dried fish skins and he's really happy about that.

[–] Huckledebuck@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 hours ago

Taking care of self and doggo. You've got the necessities covered!

[–] cheesymoonshadow@lemmings.world 6 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

We finally have new windows and sliding glass door on our fixer-upper.

[–] dedst@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago (2 children)

my kid slept the whole night last night. first time. I didn't even know what to do when I woke up and no one was crying.

[–] Huckledebuck@sh.itjust.works 3 points 12 hours ago

I was lucky with both of my kids. They both started sleeping through the night relatively quick.

Good for you! Now, on to the next parenting challenge, but at least you'll be getting better sleep.

[–] sep@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago

That is just amazing! Been there, felt that! Enjoy!

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've been focusing hard on my job, and received feedback from a C Suite Exec this week that he is impressed with my professionalism and interpersonal abilities, especially when meeting with other execs or company lawyers. He even has started coming directly to me because, quote, "Shit gets done when you're involved." This is huge to me because I'm impossibly awkward in social circles and mostly a shut-in neckbeard, but somehow it works for me at my job.

I also received recognition in the form of a beautiful glass plaque from the CEO this year, and it feels amazing.

I crawled my way up from homelessness to stability and now I'm rocking it at my job. Feels good man.

I know it's a bit taboo and perhaps unwise to put so much emphasis on your job, but it's what brings me happiness because I've struggled and fought to get to where I am now. My success has afforded me a comfortable upper-middle-class life and I'm still kind of shocked that it all came to fruition. Went from sleeping under the underpass to a penthouse condo in less than two decades.

[–] Huckledebuck@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 hours ago

There is no need to consider any of this taboo. We spend a very large chunk of our lives simply working to earn money to live. If what you're doing for work is something that makes you happy and proud to be spending time on, then that is worth some monetary value. At least, that's how I feel.

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I went to the zoo today! Didn't get very good quality pics, but putting them here anyway.

[–] Sprinks@lemmy.world 7 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Eh, who needs quality? I took this a little over ten years ago and it still makes me laugh for some reason.

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 9 hours ago

I love how fish have such weird faces!

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago

Fuck yeah, the zoo is awesome. Thanks for the neat pics.

[–] ohlaph@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I left a company after getting laid off and surprisingly found a job before the 60-day warn notice expired.

Second day, the new company announced layoffs. Luckily, I wasn't part of it, but that has been a wild ride.

[–] Huckledebuck@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 hours ago

Good for you! Being unemployed or between jobs can be scary as fuck.

[–] PlantDadManGuy@lemmy.world 27 points 1 day ago (4 children)

My wife is preggo and the baby looks healthy

[–] jeena@piefed.jeena.net 1 points 9 hours ago

Oh man congrats!

I remember when mine told me she is pregnant, I was so happy I wanted to jump!

[–] Huckledebuck@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Congrats! Remember these years because they'll fly by as you try to keep up.

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[–] FridgeReborn@lemmy.world 26 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I’m sort of dating someone.

2ish weeks ago my parents met another couple at a cocktail party and found out they had a single daughter about my age. In an extremely unsubtle attempt to set us up our families did an escape room together. Honestly, sex and dating have never been important to me. My longest relationship was a couple months long in high school, I went on maybe 3 or 4 dates in college. I went to this escape room thinking I’d make pleasantries for an hour, solve some puzzles and go home. But when I met her she was cute, and smart, and funny, and after we escaped she asked if I wanted to go with her to something else she was doing that day. We ended up spending the whole day together. And again the next weekend. I haven’t “officially” asked her out, or kissed her, or really acknowledged anything about what this is. But I have had so much fun with this badass trapeze-flying, skydiving, engineering, competitive dancing, just-so-cool woman that I can’t stop thinking about when I’ll see her next.

[–] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 7 hours ago

Don’t wait, ask her out. Nothing is worse than an opportunity missed from procrastination, and some girls have short fuses when establishing a romantic foundation with someone.

Asking her out isn’t a binding commitment for a long relationship, but it does bookmark you as an interested party.

[–] Huckledebuck@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago

Well, sounds like you're in love. Be careful, but enjoy it! Congrats!

[–] Monster96@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The company that lost my $3500 computer a month ago finally sent off a free replacement and it'll be here next week! Normally, they replace it with a refurbished one but since they don't have any, I'm getting a new one.

[–] Huckledebuck@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago

You're important enough for a new one, nice!

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 day ago (5 children)
[–] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 7 hours ago

Plot twist: Taliban member.

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[–] TokenEffort@sh.itjust.works 57 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Changed my name from what some family's abusive mother gave me, got a job at Amazon, on my way to move out and never see that family again. ✂️👔

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[–] lyth@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I got stoned in VRChat for the first time, not too long after getting my first VR headset. As a furry who's very interested in screwing with my sense of self, this was a really big deal to me in a way I can't easily explain.

[–] Huckledebuck@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago

Find your joy!

[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 33 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My parents, in their 70s, started receiving a guaranteed income supplement (they're Canadian). They're still poor, but finally they can afford the basics of survival without having to work full time.

It's such a huge change.

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[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Someone replied to this message, proving that the world hasn't yet ended!

[–] Huckledebuck@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago

There's always hope! I think I just made myself sick.

[–] TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zip 39 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

I was just about to leave, put my shoes on, and that’s when I remembered that I needed to take out the trash. The good thing is, I remembered that before tying the laces.

Seems like I usually remember everything once the laces have been tied, but this time was different.

Also, setting a pretty low bar for good things, so that anyone can join the conversation. 😀

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[–] Wrongdoer4094@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I am traveling through Greece with my girlfriend. After a nice (and exhausting) hiking route we are back in the hotel – one of the best rooms I have ever been to. She is having a shower and I am chilling over the bed. At this very moment everything feels great.

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[–] QualifiedKitten@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My employer offered me a modest severance package, and set my last day to be the first working day of the month, meaning my health care benefits are valid for almost a full month after my last day.

Tell me you're American without telling me you're American

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[–] PoscoBumbleroot@lemmy.world 36 points 1 day ago (5 children)

I just quit my soul-sucking job yesterday. I'm ecstatic to not have to go and sit in that office again.

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[–] jrubal1462@mander.xyz 26 points 1 day ago (1 children)

We switched my son's Pre-K for a number of reasons. Mostly because they didn't have room for him in the older class (where he belongs), but also because it was kinda trashy, kinda franchisee, and every day we dropped him off he was crying and clinging harder and harder. The new school is just some lady running something out of her house.

A friend asked him what he's thankful for last night and he said, "My new school" 😭😭

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[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I ordered more edibles for tomorrow which means I have an extra one for today and I won't run out like I thought I would.

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[–] Ioughttamow@fedia.io 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hard to be mad in the moment when my 9 month old smiles, makes me forget about the mess for a while

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[–] NellyAdagio@discuss.tchncs.de 26 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I'm finally starting to get my sense of smelling back AND went to see alpacas.

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[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Apart from my mortgage, I'm finally debt free, and I'm running a surplus every month after all the bills are paid.

Well, except what we jokingly refer to as my "cripling gambling-induced credit card debt"; I returned some bottles while at the store the other day. The payout wasn't a lot, but enough to cover the mundane items I was buying. Instead of dealing with the bottle return receipt I pushed that button where it buys you a small lottery ticket instead and the money is donated to red cross. Not surprisingly, I didn't win. When at the checkout counter I realized that my GF still had my usual card after borrowing it earlier, so I had to use my credit card to pay the laughably small sum.

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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 17 points 1 day ago (3 children)
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[–] adrihii@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

well i got myself a beautiful boyfriend and he sent me a letter,, and classes are going fine, very happy of course. and the place i live in has a big bright sun, which makes days happier!!

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[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 23 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I started a new job I really like, and got offered a promotion at the old job.

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