What if you don't hate people, you're just disappointed in people?
Misanthrope
Hi, i am a Misanthrope and i feel often misunderstood in that philosophy. So I created this community for the constructive discourse about misanthropic feelings, understanding the misanthropic mindset, and spreading awareness that this isn't an excuse to hate.
I want this community to be a save place for people, who are curious about Misanthrope to learn and understand what it is, and hopefully spread some awareness against stereotypes. As I expect deconstructive comments sooner or later (beeing the misanthrope i am lol) i wanna put some stricter rules here:
RULES:
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Be respectful! Even if you dont understand someones perspective, even if you disagree heavily. There are no reasons to insult or be disrespectful. We are all humans behind these accounts (hopefuly) with feelings.
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No Bigotry! Here it is allowed to dislike humanity in general. But we wont tolerate targeted hate towards minorities.
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No trolling! I know it can be hard to tell sometimes, but in volatile cases I will make a decision based on my best judgement. I want this to be a constructive community.
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Memes are welcome! I felt like i should state this, since that can be a serious topic. But sometimes silliness is the easiest way to deal with emotions.
Wikipedia defines Misanthrope as follows: "Misanthropy is the general hatred, dislike, or distrust of the human species, human behavior, or human nature. [...] Misanthropy involves a negative evaluative attitude toward humanity that is based on humankind's flaws. Misanthropes hold that these flaws characterize all or at least the greater majority of human beings."
I think this is a fair but easy to misunderstand definition. So i want to add:
- Misanthropy can also be a disappointment with humanity.
- While some Misanthropes choose solitude, others can and do enjoy the presence of some people and even enjoy engage in social events
- Misanthrope is a philosophical stance, and could be better understood as a criticism of society, rather than just irrational hate
Perfectly valid. I identify as a mesanthrope and i mostly feel dissapointed. i dont really hate people. but i got dissapointed so often that i just dont expect to like them anymore. I hope this is a discussion we can have in this community more. Because i can dislike humanity as a whole and still be married, still go to board game night, and still volunteer to be the change i want to see in sociaty.
I personally see humanity as doomed. Doesnt mean i cant work to create some small safe bunbles for me and others, where we can be dissapointed together.
Similar here, I guess. I actually love people, but it breaks my heart that not enough people seem to feel the same way.
I'm not sure that humanity is doomed. It seems more likely to me that it will find some way to limp along unless some kind of massive meteor hits or whatever. But sometimes I wonder if it would be kinder if it didn't.
Oh thank god, I need a place like this. Fucking people man.
Fucking people, they ruined humanity!
You can make another one with Russia on my behalf. This place keeps challenging my empathy to say the least.
Well russia is part of the earth, so they are already included
"A glaring misconception of self-importance
I know the character well
Heedless fool
So arrogant with no understanding of consequence
I see this negligence
I choose not to accept it
Not into my life
Absence of introspection neglects the outer world
Let not the excess of lust and comfort mislead you
This world is not yours"