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u up? (lemmy.zip)

submitted 5 months ago by Maven@lemmy.zip to c/memes@lemmy.world

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[–] yokonzo@lemmy.world 20 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Ladies, i have to ask, how often does this happen to you? And does it happen more during college/highschool? I (hope) guys would chill out with this shit after those ages

[–] Sirence@feddit.de 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It actually became more frequent when sms became free in my country around 2010 / when people switched to services instead of sms.
But it has also become easier to block messages on most services so it keeps the balance.
The age doesn't matter. If anything, they usually become creepier the older the guy is.

[–] Starkstruck@lemmy.world 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I will never understand why some guys think this won't immediately make the woman they're messaging hate them. Like, no one wants to be needlessly pestered.

[–] yokonzo@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Probably cause for one reason or another they're not considering the other person as that, a person.

I mean I understand how it can happen, it's happened to most guys at some point, it happened to me once or twice, but I was 15 and inexperienced. If you're doing this at say, 30, you're either truly incapable of empathy or otherwise malicious

[–] cloudless@fedia.io 19 points 5 months ago

"Not up? Great I am going to kiss you without your consent."

[–] squirrel@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 5 months ago (1 children)

U up?

[–] leds@feddit.dk 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

U down?

[–] Steamymoomilk@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 months ago (2 children)

I am now stuck in the constent void in between know as the middle :/

[–] Sorse@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 5 months ago

U left?

[–] HEXN3T@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 months ago

U float?

[–] kamenlady@lemmy.world 5 points 5 months ago

Quickly, wake up, run away and hide.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 4 points 5 months ago

Hitting up the connect for some bud.