this post was submitted on 31 Jul 2023
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Got out of my last relationship for this reason (amongst other things). I was the everything person - cook, accountant, maid, landscaper, scheduler, fun planner, etc. It didn't start that way of course - just little acts of service out of love that became the expectation over time. Are things more equitable in your relationships, or are there any women who are where I was at? I'm still scratching my head wondering if I bear some of the blame for setting myself up that way and trying to get some good perspective for the next one!

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[–] Saraphim@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I caulked a bathtub on my lunch break yesterday. That’s pretty much how it’s going.

[–] Saraphim@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I don’t want to talk about it.