this post was submitted on 14 Jun 2023
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I really love that each instance gets a choice in the matter, and that we as a result also have a choice. There's definitely situations where downvotes are abused, and other situations where they are insightful - as discussed by the other commenters here already.
As a result, we can customize our Lemmy experience to fit both scenarios just by having two accounts. If you're looking for advice on car modifications, use a Lemmy account with downvotes visible. If you're looking for a safe space to express emotions without the risk of feeling invalidated, use your account where they're disabled.
We don't have to choose one and commit to it. Instead, we can use the right tool for the right job, and have a better experience overall.
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