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Married folks of Fediverse, if you could turn back time to few weeks or months before your marriage, what you would do differently (if you would like to)?? (lemm.ee)

submitted 4 months ago by WeAreAllOne@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Meaning about the actual wedding? Maybe a different DJ or give him more specific instructions (he was good at doing what I specifically requested but bad at using that to figure out what else might be good). Don't trust that someone else's taste is like yours.

We didn't spend too much or stress too much, it was fine. It was never my dream, husband wanted a wedding and not anything specific so we just sort of hosted a big party with a wedding as part of it.

Remember it's just a blip in what is supposed to be a very long relationship, the wedding is not the important part.