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How do you navigate loneliness when striving to break free from societal norms? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 5 months ago by blackboxwarrior@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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The title pretty much says it all. I've always struggled to connect with others, but the farther I find myself outside of societal norms, the harder it gets.

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[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 1 points 5 months ago

When you’re falling into a black hole, you set all your thrusters to maximum.

There’s no trick. You’ve either fallen too far to still be able to climb, or not. There’s no way to know whether you’ve slipped too far, other than to climb as hard as you possibly can, and that’s also the optimal strategy for escaping.

There’s no trick. You have to push as hard as you can, as soon as you can. Each moment you wait makes the task harder.