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Is it normal for people to comment to their friends whether or not they would sleep with passing strangers? (lemmygrad.ml)

submitted 9 months ago by CannotSleep420@lemmygrad.ml to c/asklemmygrad@lemmygrad.ml

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Whenever I'm out in public with my friends, if a woman passes by, they always feel compelled to say whether or not "would bang". They make it out like I'm the weird one for not doing this.

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[–] rostselmasch@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 9 months ago

In my experience, the wording is not "I am attracted to this person", it is rather done in a more degrading way. It is ok to say to your friend, that you are attracted to someone. But it can get quite annoying if a person starts rating every other person. I can somehow understand this behaviour if someone is experiencing puberty. Hormones are a hell of a thing.

It gets far more inappropriate if it is done in a political context. Likey being part of an organisation/party and some comrades are behaving like they are on Tinder.

Op should simply tell their friends, that they should stop doing it if it is a problem.