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A bit of a rant, pre-sorry but so sad and annoyed right now.

Went to my favorite barber shop today. It's built on being nice, upscale, and men's haircuts. They do the works, good cuts, beard trimming/shaping, hot towel, the whole thing, and it's built to be man's place, they have a pool table, they have a couple of kegerators, they'll pour you a whiskey while you wait. Very nice.

(Note I say man's but really if you're a woman/any other gender and you like that sort of thing, then awesome. I mean man in the masculine sense)

Until recently this was my favorite place, but apparently it's gotten on the mom groups online and now the last few times I've gone it's just filled with children and moms. Where I could go and get a whiskey while I wait and find someone to shoot pool with, now kids are literally running around and as for the pool table they're just throwing the balls around. Meanwhile the moms are either talking with each other or hovering over Bradley getting his hair cut and how cute it is.

On top of it all, because there was a group of them instead of my normal 20 min wait it was almost a 2 hours wait. I just walked out.

I'm just so tired of it, this place obviously was built for adults but god forbid we have any adult places that aren't "actually meant for children". I mean obviously it was built for children, there's 2 kegs and a shelf of nice scotch but yes, bring all of your children here.

How come every place that used to be for adults is now a child zone? My favorite breweries used to be great places to let off steam after work and now I have kids playing tag in the middle of them. I flat out don't go to movies anymore because even the super late showings are just dumping grounds for inattentive parents to leave their kids. And god forbid you ever mention outside a community like this that you want to drink a beer without a kid running around or you're literally the devil who should be shunned.

Anyway, this isn't going anywhere specifically, I'm just really sad, and I didn't get my haircut today.

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[–] DontMakeMoreBabies@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sounds like OP has met bad parents? There are lots of them and they make shitty kids who run around like demons.

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I've seen kids who sit quietly at a brewery coloring. They are definitely the minority but it does happen.

What happens all the time are parent who think their kid is in the well behaved minority. I have yet to meet a parent who isn't convinced that their kid is "one of the good ones"

[–] NoIWontPickaName@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Hi! My kids can be holy terrors, i will admit that.

It's why we don't go to many places together, like shopping especially, whenever possible.

Kid friendly places are different.