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The "just google it" mantra has probably held back quite a lot of interesting conversations and debate (lemmy.world)
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I've always been a "lurker" on all platforms and communities because when I do have a question or would like to contribute my first thought has become:

Actually, let me google it first

In which case I'll usually have some answer. Usually it isn't a complete answer but enough for me to not want to share my question anymore.

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[โ€“] xthedeerlordx@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

100% this. Trying to "understand the person" is too often a code for "let them spew their bigotry/hatred/evil" under the guise of "discussion". It's disingenuous and is not what OP is even talking about

[โ€“] OccamsTeapot@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah I get that people use it that way but what if you actually want a discussion? Gets a bit tiresome to be accused of "letting them spew hatred" when if you actually want them to stop spewing hatred, a conversation with actual understanding is necessary, imo. Or at least the best way I know of