Neurodivergence

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All things neurodivergent and relating to the broader neurodivergent community (and communities).

See also this community's sister subs Feminism, LGBTQ+, Disability, and POC

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Parenting a Neurodivergent child (beehaw.org)

submitted 1 year ago by neamhsplach@beehaw.org to c/neurodivergence@beehaw.org

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Who here is parenting an ND child?

Has finding out their diagnosis also led to you or their other parent to a late diagnosis?

Any resources you'd like to share with the community?

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[–] dpnash@mastodon.online 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@Zumbador @TechyDad @neamhsplach A lot of it may boil down to this:

Was #ActuallyAutistic a label chosen *by* you, as a result of accurate and compassionately-communicated information?

Or was it chosen *for* you, by people who were more interested in trying to “solve the problem” that is you, and are ultimately not motivated by acting for your own well-being?

(I spent most of my life in the second camp, and even on the best days, the term “autistic” is emotionally fraught for me.)

[–] Zumbador@mefi.social 1 points 1 year ago

@dpnash

Very true. And definitely something late realised autistic people are often not aware of.

But I meant to ask a different question, which is why people in the first group (realising they're autistic vs having been diagnosed by someone else ) sometimes have such different experiences.

@TechyDad @neamhsplach