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I’ve struggled with freelancing in the past because there’s too much freedom and not enough structure. Now that I’m medicated and in therapy maybe I should give it another try.
I guess I had always my animals to give me enough structure to not completely lose it, then my child. It's like an override. Even now with child almost grown and only spending half his time here, you wouldn't believe how much better I eat when he is here compared to when he's not, just because I want to make sure I feed him well and set a good example. And I never fail getting up because the animals need feeding - imagine a horse neighing and two donkeys braying when they consider it's getting a little late. Like having a boss, but with a really fluffy nose and generally nicer and less annoying.