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[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Right, but if the person I was talking originally to had said "I'm not from the US so I know nothing about it" it woulda been fine and I would have immediately apologized and we'd go from there. Having a nice chat.

That's not what happened. Someone new chimed in with a pretty rude non-sequitur in the vein of 'stupid Americans'. I don't think I was particularly defensive or angry, but maybe it came off that way.

[–] flora_explora@beehaw.org 2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

The phrasing of "more civilised places" in the comment you mention seems highly problematic to me, yes. I think the "stupid Americans" is your biased interpretation though.

Oh, btw I wouldn't call people from the USA "Americans", because it is just one of many countries in the Americas. Another blind spot in the US perspective.

[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

Haha, "why so defensive"?

[–] Flax_vert 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Nah, I meant "stupid americans". They were right.

[–] flora_explora@beehaw.org 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Oh, OK. Yeah, I understand now why the other person got defensive. I obviously also get your anger at US people. But why would you then throw "civilised people" around? Imo this reinforces colonialist viewpoints of civilised vs uncivilised people.

ETA: oh wow, scrolling through your recent posts you seem to have a lot of oppressive and conservative opinions.

[–] Flax_vert 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Wouldn't describe them as oppressive, I'm just a constitutional monarchist and I recently started a flame war over why I don't think religion should be destroyed lmao.

Also the white Europeans living in America are colonialists and those are the ones I am referring to as uncivilised, not indigenous. So I apologise if you thought that I was referring to indigenous people.

[–] bermuda@beehaw.org 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I just started a flame war

Okay so I don't need you in my feed then. Blocked. Hope more follow suit

[–] Flax_vert 1 points 11 months ago

I'm going to cry at night