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[โ€“] thunderc0c@lemm.ee -2 points 11 months ago

TheAnonymouseJoker, you seem to exhibit a significant emotional trigger, leading to a deviation from the topic at hand. The extensive narrative and the ensuing accusations against various individuals indicate a tendency towards off-topic drifting, a common behavioral response observed in individuals under psychological stress. This kind of verbose divergence from the central discussion is often seen as a form of gaslighting, where the intention is to shift the focus and disorient the conversation.

Moreover, the language used, particularly the phrase 'If you used 2 brain cells,' towards @Kecessa@sh.itjust.works comment, is an evident sign of emotional reactivity coupled with a defensive posture. Such reactions are not uncommon in individuals exhibiting traits associated with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), where there is a tendency to deflect and insult when feeling threatened or criticized. It's an instinctive mechanism to protect one's self-image and divert attention from personal vulnerabilities or accountability.

Let's try to steer this back on track. Diving into these off-topic narratives, while it might feel instinctual to you, really muddies the waters of our actual discussion. It's an interesting pattern, and addressing it could be a constructive step in your own personal development. Focusing on the topic at hand is not just about keeping this conversation productive; it's also a kind of exercise, isn't it? A way to practice self-awareness and control in how you engage. So, how about we stick to the relevant points? It'll be more effective for our dialogue and, who knows, it might even be a good habit for you to develop.