Asklemmy

Gotcha. Lessee. My husband is part Korean, part various Hispanic, and I'm mostly white (born in South Africa so I have a spattering of various ethnicities given that my ancestors were sailors to some degree).

Husband (who also has a strong, white, preference) says that generally women tend to want to stay in their ethnic group, while men are more likely to want someone outside their ethnic group. I'm not certain on the validity of that, since where I live there is a whole lot of variation in couples.

Either way, that might be adding to your challenges! It also depends on your area. Where I live there are plenty of mixed couples, but if you're in a state where people tend to stay within their ethnic groups that's gonna be a lot harder

Finding someone who has your exact beliefs is also extremely difficult. I never would have guessed I would marry someone like my husband. He leans conservative, while I lean liberal (for example).

But what I meant is: if you like a sporty woman, going to the gym is where you might find one. If you like an artsy woman, take a random art class at a community College. If you like an out-going woman, you'll want to check your area for "fun things to do". If what you want is an introvert who plays DnD, then try to find a DnD group. Try to figure out what interests the women you want will have- and then go there.

Keep in mind this will take time. You have to be friends with them first (for long term relationships) and then work your way into their hearts/minds/panties from there.

And side note, you could easily be friend zoned. But, with luck, she might have a single friend who she'd think you'd be perfect with :)