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I became a dad two weeks ago! (kbin.social)

submitted 1 year ago by zeste@kbin.social to c/chat@kbin.social

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Any advice and/or stories from early parenthood anyone wants to share would be appreciated!

Edit: just wanted to say I'm reading all the comments and appreciate everyone. The newborn is keeping me busy!

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[–] redsky@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

I think fatherhood is less about the child and more about parenting yourself. Watch how you respond to your little one. Sooth and calm yourself. Look after yourself. Treat your child like you would like to be treated. Model peace. And honor your child for they will soon be an adult.

When your child reaches adulthood you want to be able to appreciate memories of self-sacrifice, personal growth, laughter, and fun. You will influence your child. And your child will influence you.

One day they will strike out on their own. And you will have been changed forever because of that beautiful little independent part of you.