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Should’ve unmatched her or ghosted the second she canceled the first date. She laughed at anon because he has no self respect or awareness; she saw him still thinking he isn’t just a number after she clearly blew him off twice in his face.
People suck dude. It’s bumble, she has to message first. Then she blew him off. At that point it’s less about the date and more about finding out why. My best guess would be that she also messaged another guy she liked more and he finally responded, so she cancelled the date with this other guy, but didn’t want to tell him no in case this dude fell through.
He was second choice. Or third. I’m just glad I’m married, and NOT to an American born woman. Foreign women are way better.
Damn that was a weird twist ending
Yes, I know that’s not a popular statement, but culturally, American women don’t match with me. I’m sure it’s not the same for others.
Having dated, and married, foreign women I wouldn't say they're better, just different.
But I agree with the first part, she probably had competing priorities or another date, and she was cool with him until something else popped up. Once could just be coincidence, but twice is a no go