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What advice do you have to share with the random folks of lemmy? (lemmy.fmhy.ml)

submitted 1 year ago by QuietStorm@lemmy.fmhy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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keep is seriouse if you can and it can really be about anything just have the advice be good if you so do.

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[–] lvxferre@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Stop caring about the intentions of other people. Focus instead on the effect that they have on your life.

In special: get away ASAP from people who are eager to point fingers at the others, with little to no reason, and even when proved wrong will still double it down. Don't allow them in your social circles. Your future self will thank you.