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[–] queermunist@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I have an anthropological theory based on Engels' work.

Gender roles as we know them today were probably an innovation that emerged from the creation of private property. Sperm donors could have sex with anyone they wanted because there wasn't a way to actually track down "fathers" before DNA testing, but child bearers had to be monogamous in order to ensure the proper transfer of wealth through generations of the family because it was always possible to know who the "mother" was.

Gender, therefore, was actually a class distinction. Sperm donors became "men" and child bearers became "women". That's why hunter-gatherer societies without the concept of private property can have so many different gender expressions, whereas we have a hard man/woman dichotomy. As long as the heritability of property is in question there needs to be a legitimized dictatorial unit that can control it, and because men were more free than women they became the dominant organizers of heritability.

The advent of DNA testing and birth control and abortion changed this dynamic significantly and equalized the male/female power dynamic, so we saw the rise of feminism and challenges to patriarchy. Heritability now wasn't just a question of fatherhood, but parentage. Patriarchy still reigned, but I think it's safe to say there was a significant cultural shift and patriarchy has entered a decline.

The family unit was still intact, though, so the man/woman dichotomy still served a function and gender remained a functional innovation.

What is happening now is the decline of property ownership under late-stage capitalism. In a world where no one owns anything and everything is just being rented, what purpose does heritability serve? I have nothing to pass on to my descendants, it doesn't really matter who my parents are or who my children are or what equipment I have. I'm not a man or a woman, **I'm a labor unit. **

The decline of patriarchy has thus accelerated, but more importantly, the decline of the nuclear family unit has begun as well and the heritability question is becoming irrelevant.

And, without these rigid cultural structures, people are rediscovering who they are on their own.

(this is a rough idea obviously, just something I've been thinking about a lot since I started my transition)

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 2 points 1 year ago

Reading that first paragraph I was thinking "oh here we go" but by the end I was like dam that's an interesting way of looking at it.

It does feel like life is more chaotic today than 50 years ago. Many people are not interested in climbing the ladder because there is no guarantee that they'll be able to retire at the end so instead are living with a short term focus. Do whatever you need to do to survive/be happy.

Sometimes I'll work for a few years then go on job seekers benefits for 8 months just to focus on enjoying life. I'd like a family but because I grew up poor I have no interest in starting one unless I can provide a comfortable middle class upbringing. At the moment it seems like I'll be unlikely to get to that position. So instead of my life path being pre defined as be man, get job, buy house, have kids, never stop working and make sure there's food on the table for everyone. It's work only as much as you need to provide for yourself. I don't feel like there is roles that men and women need to fit into we can do whatever we want to do.