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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/FLUFFY-APPLE- on 2023-09-05 09:59:07.
I (24F) been with my bf (23M) for almost 5 years. We’ve always slept in the same bed. i never had any issues with sharing a bed. But as of recently ive been questioning on continuing this because of a few creepy things have been happening while he slept. For example it would be things like yelling, standing up and walking around the room then jumping back in bed but last night was the last straw. I was laying in bed around 12am. He has a 6am start time for work, so he’s bedtime is earlier then mine. That being said hes in a deep sleep by the time I get in bed. So at this point ive been in bed for about 15-20 minutes struggling to sleep. When suddenly he sits up and STARES AT ME. IN THE DARK. would u not was ready to run out the house. He continued to stare at me for a minute or two then lays back down. I didn’t sleep well that night. I told him about what happened the next morning and he has no memory of it happening, I asked him if he could sleep on the couch for a few nights so i can get over what happened but he’s calling me dramatic. I tried to explain to him how creepy that night was for me but he isn’t budging and insists on sleeping together
Edit: we have a 8 month old baby whom we also share the room with. Being a breastfeeding mom i find it inconvenient to run up a flight of stairs to get to baby throughout the night. Thats why i insist on him moving downstairs to the couch
I think a third party would help at this point. Someone like a therapist or a priest who can help explain both sides and present the best options.