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What's a skill that's taken for granted where you live, but is often missing in people moving there from abroad? (kyu.de)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by aard@kyu.de to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I was thinking about that when I was dropping my 6 year old off at some hobbies earlier - it's pretty much expected to have learned how to ride a bicycle before starting school, and it massively expands the area you can go to by yourself. When she went to school by bicycle she can easily make a detour via a shop to spend some pocket money before coming home, while by foot that'd be rather time consuming.

Quite a lot of friends from outside of Europe either can't ride a bicycle, or were learning it as adult after moving here, though.

edit: the high number of replies mentioning "swimming" made me realize that I had that filed as a basic skill pretty much everybody has - probably due to swimming lessons being a mandatory part of school education here.

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[–] BigNote@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm from Portland and my complaint is nearly the opposite; that the baristas try to be too friendly/chatty with me. I don't want to talk to you, I want my goddamned coffee and once I've had that I might be inclined to chat.

I even tell my employees not to talk to me until after I've had my coffee.

[–] MJBrune@beehaw.org 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Portland and Seattle are fairly opposites. Keep Portland weird and all. Seattle is also a big tech hub and that means a lot of quiet, shy, introverted engineers. Portland has tech but not as much.

[–] BigNote@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Scarcely. This is the tyranny of small differences. Portland and Seattle have way more in common with one another than they do with any other big cities in the US. Sure, there are differences, but to the rest of the world they seem trivial.

It's notable, for example, that even something so organic as Seattle's "grunge" music scene actually had its roots in Portland with all of the proto-grunge bands, like Napalm Beach and Dead Moon that came out of Portland's Satyricon in the 1980s.

[–] MJBrune@beehaw.org -1 points 1 year ago

It's still all the one but Seattle has moved into a big corporate city and doesn't support the same sort of people as Portland does.