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[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 32 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hobbies and pursuing them. Like board games? Join the local game night! Like sailing? Join a sailing club and attend! Like football? Join a local football team. Like thinking and debating? Join a Sceptic Society!

It’s hard to be the new kid, it never changes with age, but you just need a few shared experiences and people start thinking of you as part of the tribe.

[–] diskmaster23@lemmy.one 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 5 points 1 year ago

Sure. Not for me, but I do have a friend who’s very active in the swinging scene and he’s made friends there.

[–] bigboopballs@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Like sex? Join a sex club!

easier said than done, buddy! there's not just sex clubs hanging around that any man can just go and join

[–] FUsername@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I guess that joke works for almost every activitiy, except for those which incorporate death of people.

Except you're necrophile, so even there. /s