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How does anyone believe in monogamy nowadays? (lemm.ee)
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Not talking about being with one partner at a time. Talking about the idea of finding "the one" and being with them your whole life.

50% divorce rate. 97% of people (in the US) don't wait till marriage, so most of us have multiple sexual partners prior to the one we stick with. Many have children with more than one partner.

How can anyone look at the world and think, yeah, there's one that's meant for everyone and just one?

Also hope I don't come across disrespectful. If you do believe in monogamy, I am interested in hearing from you. I'm just buzzed and thinking about my own love life and being curt

Edit: Speaking to the idea that it's the "natural order" or default. Not that it can't work in individual circumstances, especially when we've been programmed for decades

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[–] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago

I'm sure there is significant regional variation in the rates as well. Canada is well up in the rankings though.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce_demography