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[–] tom42@lemmy.world 51 points 1 year ago (5 children)

That girls wear pink and boys wear blue.

[–] emptyother@programming.dev 19 points 1 year ago (2 children)

How long until some nerd points out that it used to be opposite.. Oh, I just did, didn't I. Im that nerd. Darn.

[–] Radarman@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 year ago

It’s okay buddy.

[–] Greenknight777@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Interestingly about 100 years ago it used to be the reverse. Pink was seen as a masculine colour while blue was considered feminine. Goes to show how arbitrary a lot of the gender norm rules are.

[–] daddyjones@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I'm a straight, overweight and hairy man in his mid forties. I love pink.

[–] rodbiren@midwest.social 6 points 1 year ago

Not very long till a nerd shows up. My favorite is that FDR wore gender neutral clothes, including dresses, and did not get his hair cut till he was 7. A bizarrely more progressive past activity.

https://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2011/04/fdr-grew-up-in-a-dress-it-wasnt-always-blue-for-boys-and-pink-for-girls/237299/

[–] Aderyna@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

My 5 year old son LOVES pink and purple. Anytime he can find anything on those colors he's all in. He picked out a pink crayon box and purple lunch box for Kindergarten here soon and my mom (who was taking him shopping) called me to make sure I was OK with him picking those.

"Yes mom, I don't care if he picks out things in his favorite colors." πŸ™„