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Yesterday I fought I was a demiboy with part girl but today in confused I have no clue what my gender is. I think I might be nonbinary I'm not sure aaaaa I am confused

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[–] retronautickz@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If you had to assign adjectives to your gender, which would those be?

They do not have to be gender qualities (masculine, feminine, etc)

[–] sleepybisexual@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Demiboy, other part is either nb or girl

[–] retronautickz@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No, I don't mean which labels you use, but rather what adjectives do you associate with your gender.

You say you're confused about your gender, what part confuses you?

[–] sleepybisexual@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I know I'm part not but idk what the other part is

[–] retronautickz@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You don't need to label the other part if you aren't sure what is it.

But if you really want to, do you think the second part of your gender could be both girl and NB? Something in-between the two? A girl in a non-binary way? An enby in a girl way?

Have you taken a look at labels like nymgirl, juxera, quella, etc that express a nonbinaryness that is also (in) directly related to girlness?

[–] sleepybisexual@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Haven't seen this other label. The other part is a mix of envy and girl I think

[–] retronautickz@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Then, I'll suggest taking a look at labels like xirl or girlby/engirl, that express all possible intersections between been a girl and been non binary. Maybe they could work for the other part of your gender.

[–] sleepybisexual@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

Thank you, I'll look into them :3