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It is endlessly frustrating that companies have universally decided that they won't let people say "no" to stuff, ever. There are no longer options to reject stupid-ass new "features", only postponement until next time you open the app/website/program. They'll continue pestering you for the rest of your life. I realize that my frustration may be a little over-zealous, but we deal with these interfaces dozens of times per day and this is user hostile behavior. There isn't really an option to just use another service or program, since the entire technology landscape has been commandeered by a few major corporations, and they all enact the same shitty things as a group.

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[–] jet@hackertalks.com 131 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

You should be pissed off! It's software paternalism, utilizing new speak, removing your vocabulary and agency.

Every time you're given a dark pattern dialogue where it says " would you like this thing that you don't like? Yes absolutely, later " the developers don't respect you, they're trying to say you don't know what you want, they're using propaganda on you..

It's like the classic police interrogation question " is that when you stopped beating your wife?" Yes and no are both traps. So some edgy developer is trying to trap you with oh but you consented (can send it) to seeing this later. When it's really user hostile dark patterns using forced language to remove your agency as a human being. It's fucking scummy

This is why I love open source software, not only is it highly unlikely for you to see a dark pattern, if you do you can fix it!

[–] Jackcooper@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] ArtisinalBS@lemm.ee 35 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh my god! The first organic boneappletea I've seen on lemmy

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Guilty as charged! I use voice to text typing on my cell phone. Google does love its bone apple tees

[–] Emperor 3 points 1 year ago

bone apple tees

I think you should start the community ASAP.