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Hey couples, do you have similar views as your partner or are you very different people? (lemm.ee)

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[–] RGB3x3@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

My wife and I are the same way. I don't understand her taste in music and she doesn't understand mine. I like different types of movies and TV, so we compromise. But nearly all of the important things like political views, childrearing, social views, and life goals match.

Oddly enough, we differ in religious views, but she's only lightly Methodist and I'm atheist, so it's not a crazy untenable difference.