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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.

Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.

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I cannot repost what Flying Squid was posting here, because it involved highly disturbing and dangerous content, including:

Content WarningGraphic content, harassment, self-harm, and suicidal ideation, which I reported immediately.

While this behavior is shocking, it’s not completely out of left field, as members of this community and platform will already be familiar with their behavior. Flying Squid has long been regarded as one of the least productive and most problematic mods on all of Lemmy, often picking fights and abusing their mod privileges. I view this change as a positive step for Squid, .world, and Lemmy as a whole.

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[–] Cephalotrocity@biglemmowski.win 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)
[–] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 0 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I already talked about that one, and found your explanation for why that was a horrible thing for him to say pretty unconvincing, but sure, I'll look into it more. Who was he talking to? Where was this so I can see the comments context? I already gave my reaction but maybe if I looked at the full context, I would feel differently, and it's so old a comment that it's not on my instance and obviously I'm not going to look through 4+ months of comments to find it and see the context for myself.

[–] Blaze@feddit.org 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)
[–] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Got it, thanks. So FS had an extended argument with two people with a certain amount of embitteredness on both sides of the argument, in a community he moderates, and then at some point in this extended argument, he mentioned in passing that the person he was talking to seemed like a habitual rule-breaker, also.

I can't find the user anymore, which usually means their account was deleted at the home instance, right?

https://biglemmowski.win/u/Timii

Am I wrong about that? That kind of makes it sound like FS might have had a point about how that person was talking in bad faith in that particular argument, and also in some of their other on-Lemmy conduct. Right?

I stand by my assessment. Maybe you could say there's no point in FS getting in that long and fairly pointless argument with two separate people, but I don't think his POV in the argument was wrong, and there's absolutely nothing of PTB anywhere in there. If this is some of the best example you can find going back through six months of heavy Lemmy participation and moderation, I have no idea why anyone thinks FS is "insane" or needs their moderator abilities taken away. IDK, I haven't looked into the recent stuff so maybe they are unstable and it's better if they're not in authority, but still not a PTB in my opinion.

[–] Cephalotrocity@biglemmowski.win 1 points 11 hours ago (3 children)

He literally says out loud he went through a users comment history looking for ammunition.

[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 9 hours ago

do you know who you're talking to?

[–] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Wait.

Why on earth does this complaint not apply to you digging through FlyingSquid's history to find something he said to someone six months ago, and telling other people he is insane and needs to be IP-banned and all his content removed, because of, for example, that thing he said to that one user six months ago?

[–] Cephalotrocity@biglemmowski.win 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

lul. You asked for proof. I supplied it. That's the difference. I have actual reasons to say what I say. You support him blindly just because ?

[–] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 1 points 10 hours ago

Oh, I think it's entirely reasonable to look through someone's history and find stuff that gives context about their behavior, and fair game to bring up examples if people are talking about them, so that people can reference objective things which may or may not justify the conclusions or personal attacks that are being made about that person. I'm just saying that it sounds like you don't think it should be allowed, apparently, except when you do it.

[–] Blaze@feddit.org 1 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

Which seems reasonable to assess whether the user is a troll or bad faith actor

[–] Cephalotrocity@biglemmowski.win 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Whatever. Ya'll proving my point. He has a cabal of users that make excuses and gave him tons of leeway and support when he clearly doesn't deserve it. Those users experience are just what I found quickly. I've seen numerous arguments where he ends it with mod action. Him claiming there's a good reason for it is BS when it is clearly his MO: argue with people and ban on loss.

Regardless. He's ... gone... World News et al are def going to be better for it.

[–] Blaze@feddit.org 0 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

’ve seen numerous arguments where he ends it with mod action.

Then just show them. Seriously. The closest I got was this example, but in this case the other user is indeed trolling, so it's not even power tripping.

Edit: https://lemmy.world/comment/14488436

[–] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 1 points 10 hours ago

Ding ding ding lol

It's like "how DARE you be doing moderation of users when you are a MODERATOR, and having disagreements with people, the shame."

I do that too, in a freelance capacity, although I've also been accused of that being a terrible thing to do. But it honestly makes perfect sense to me. If I've been arguing with someone who is insisting that trans men are women and not just that but being totally weird about their conduct of the conversation, I will yes start to wonder after a certain point what their deal even is, and look into it.