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I always forget we are creatures of habit till that moment hits. I have a relative who is a woodworker, but the reality is they just love collecting wood because they worked at a sawmill as a teenager and talking about wood was all his peers did. I also have a friend who wears the same cologne since childhood because a crush once complimented them on it.

I suppose always being the "good friend" (in their parents eyes) made me more sociable, so now I avoid "events" because I just feel like it's a game and I don't want my interactions with other people to feel that way (love small gatherings with a purpose though, the Amish got it right with the barn raising).

What are some that you've experienced personally or through someone close to you?

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[โ€“] kat@orbi.camp 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you. So unfair.

[โ€“] Bullybeard@lemm.ee 1 points 20 hours ago

Thank u for ur kindness stranger and hey life's never fair yk, we move on with things as best as we're able to and hope for better