Femcel Memes

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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.

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I hate this, but the discussion needs to be had (preview.redd.it)

submitted 2 days ago by jawa21@lemmy.sdf.org to c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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I wasn't a part of making this community, but I've done a little to help it grow.. Here's the rub; while I think we generally try to meme from a uniquely trans fem pov (which is awesome) there is an entire toxic form of femininity ready to latch on to this community. One only has to do a quick search on 🤮eddit to find this.

I really do love the style of memes here, but this is my plea to the mods to keep it from getting toxic. Sure, the memes can be super dark at times, but we should really keep the r/femaledaingstrategey stuff out. It'd be awesome if we can keep the comm title as mostly a joke.

This image is just a taste of what's out there that can be toxic. Feel free to remove it, but I wanted to get a point across for all of our sakes.

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[–] Staden_@pawb.social 9 points 2 days ago (2 children)

can someone give me the context of what is so toxic about r/femaledaingstrategey? I've never been there

[–] DScratch@sh.itjust.works 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It’s essentially the female version of like incel pickup artists.

“High Value Males” and such.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 day ago

It's a bunch of people who hate themselves and think evolutionary psychology will bring them happiness. Evolution doesn't want us to be happy, nor does it say anything about how we should live. Following that line of thinking treats every human being as disposable and worthless, even those who might enjoy slightly more privilege. Fuck nature; you're all gorgeous and I want to love you all! 😤

[–] jawa21@lemmy.sdf.org 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm not sure where to start. It at times gets close to "let's end the patriarchy by killing men" but unironically.

[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

there's also just a lot of gender essentialism and terf newspeak

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eg 'penis preference'