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Right ... so finding a bunch of people to be off-base and being willing to say so means I must be in an irreconcilably bad mood?!
The idea is pretty simple ... there is such a thing as providing an unwelcome or tone-deaf contribution to a conversation, and there's such a thing as letting people know without wanting to be too mean or aggressive about it. It's not a bid deal, it's a fairly social thing, and no one needs to get or be upset about it.
Beyond that, if you're one to support or welcome a sort-of Reddit culture of hijacking threads, well I'd suspect that would be one of the things best left behind, simply because it allows communities and threads to be user friendly and foster whatever cultures they want. Allowing and encouraging a culture that accepts people roaming all over the place hijacking whichever parts of lemmy they want would, IME, only degrade the experience for everyone else.
IMO, if people wanted to divert this into something about programming languages ... that's cool ... cross-post to the appropriate community and go from there.