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How were you able to get over the fear of approaching your crush? And how did it go? (discuss.online)

submitted 5 days ago by lriv724@discuss.online to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I need advice because I’m scared lol.

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[–] thesohoriots@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

You need to take a risk on some level, which probably isn’t what you want to hear, but other commenters have said as much. I think that even worse than a solid “no” is just not doing anything and getting up in your head about the what-ifs, and missing an opportunity entirely.