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[–] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (2 children)

People where I am from call everyone "you guys" - men, women, trans, doesn't matter, everyone is just "you guys" even when it's a woman addressing a group of women.

The literal meaning isn't gender neutral, but in actual practice, it 100% is.

As for "y'all" or "you all", I don't see how it could possibly be interpreted as offensive to any gender.

[–] ipkpjersi@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

As for “y’all” or “you all”, I don’t see how it could possibly be interpreted as offensive to any gender.

I think "we don't take kindly to y'all" to a trans person would likely be offensive. Beyond that though, you're probably okay.

[–] slacktoid@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 hours ago

I mean ... Thats just an all out threat with y'all acting as an exclusionary statement.

All in all agree with your point tho.

[–] tonyn@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

"You People" is the one to be avoided

[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 1 points 52 minutes ago

"howdy fuckers" is the opposite as it sounds bad on paper but in practice it goes over well (except with middle aged moms)

[–] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 hours ago

Yeah I don't see that one going over well anywhere