Below is some technical definition, but with sexual positivity means to me in regards to means, is there a gangbang everybody walks away with a smile on my face.
When somebody is bathed in cum it is because they like that and they think it makes their skin better.
In short, I like my sex memes to be heavy on the consent, and heavy on the mutual pleasure.
Like I like my coffee.
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More than just that, though, says Texas-based sex educator Goody Howard (https://www.instagram.com/askgoody/), sex positivity is the idea that people should have space to embody, explore, and learn about their sexuality (https://www.healthline.com/health/different-types-of-sexuality) and gender (https://www.healthline.com/health/different-genders) without judgment or shame. βIt involves being nonjudgmental and respectful regarding the diversity of sexuality and gender expressions, as long a s there is consent,β says trauma-focused therapist and sexuality educator Aida Manduley (http://aidamanduley.com/) , LCSW, adding that sex positivity promotes a specific set of actions.
Above all else, sex positivity values consent (https://www.healthline.com/health/guide-to-consent), communication, education that allows people to m ake informed choices about their bodies, and pleasure.
It's also important in forms of play that you wouldn't readily associate with sex, such as horror roleplaying. It's far more interesting to have a fully cognizant cultist willingly gestating some Mythos entity, rather implied non-consent being the driver of the "horror." In fact, I think that's a good rule of thumb for any manner of body horror: enthusiastic consent is definitely more mysterious and scary than being subjected to horror through force or dubious consent.