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"and"
If you study non violent communication, folks will say to avoid using "I agree with you, but". Because as soon as you say " but ", people get defensive and stop listening to you.
Whenever possible, replace "but" with "and" if the sentence still has the same meaning
This was not a case of "I agree with you, but...", though. "But" is perfectly appropriate here to contrast between the first statement and the second.
@delirious_owl @acockworkorange
"I agree with you BUT you are being an a--hole."
"I agree with you AND you are being an a--hole."
Hmm. 🤔
Yeah. It also makes it sound way more impactful and true. Thank you! 😁