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[–] EmoThugInMyPhase@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

You'd like to think they're into you for more than just... Being a stable person or whatever.

It’s why I find it strange when people repeat the sentiment of “the bar is very low. just be normal and a woman will give you a chance.” This is like the other end of the spectrum for being “a nice guy,” where somehow it’s a good thing that someone actually takes interest in you for just being “nice” without really being attracted to you otherwise