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What trait instantly makes you despise a person beyond belief? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 1 year ago by overlyanxious@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] nparkinglot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 year ago

I used to do this to everyone, all the goddamned time. Then I got diagnosed with ADHD and I become a lot more self-aware of my behaviors.

I worked so fucking hard to learn ways to get ahead of or sidestep my urges. Now when other people do it around me it irritates me way, way more than it ever did before.