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[–] Aradina@lemmy.ml 70 points 5 months ago (33 children)

So do people just not understand that temperature tolerance is a limited thing based on your climate and any deviations can feel significant?

[–] 389aaa@hexbear.net 63 points 5 months ago (29 children)

No, they do not, and most of them aren't willing to understand, either.

People, or at least NT people, with higher temperature tolerance are almost always assholes about it - I have weird heat sensitivity, I suspect on account of my Autism, and I only stopped getting constant shit for it once I basically entirely stopped talking to NTs.

The people in this thread are just seizing on an excuse to shit on people they perceive as weaker, or an excuse to shit on the English as if they are actually inherently evil just by existing. Or both.

[–] LeopardShepherd@hexbear.net 21 points 5 months ago (2 children)

It is interesting to see high heat and associated sweating as quite a powerful stimulus which often causes overstimulation particularly in people with neuro divergence. So sometimes it's not even a heat tolerance problem but an overstimulation problem which NTs seem to have a hard time understanding.

Also like others have said, perception of temperature changed is largely dependent on where your current baseline is.

[–] Aradina@lemmy.ml 14 points 5 months ago

I have fibromyalgia and autism so it's a combo for me. Heat makes pain worse, discomfort increases sensitivity, etc etc bad times.

Even just new meds can fuck with your ability to process heat. When I started prozac I would feel hot and get sweaty from basically any activity, which then meant I'd get cold, shiver, sweat more. NTs are fucking weird

[–] 389aaa@hexbear.net 12 points 5 months ago (1 children)

In my case it almost feels like my body's reaction to heat has a screwed-up sense of how hot things are. I can't take hot showers, for example, which are objectively not dangerous, because they genuinely feel like they are going to burn me - normal-hot-shower temperature water feels like like a wet hot pan, it's like my cap is just lower. Ambient heat in the air and light doesn't do that in the same way, but it can make walls and stuff feel like that, naturally.

I hadn't thought of it from the overstimulation angle before, though, but now that I think about it I think you're right, that is at least part of why I hate ambient heat and particularly sweating. Thank you for that insight.

[–] LeopardShepherd@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago

That sounds super frustrating, do you have any idea why that might be? I know certain conditions like Raynauds or some medication can fuck with temperature perception.

Oh no worries, my partner described it to me that way as she gets pretty much the same symptoms in the heat that she gets in large crowds or noisy environments. Then we looked it up and other people (especially those with ASD) described it the same way!

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