Also it's a lot easier said than done to just up and move somewhere more convenient. I don't have that luxury, and telling me to do so will get you a big fat "go fuck yourself" from me for being so insufferable about it.

Now move along and go bug someone else with your luxury conveniences.

[–] redtea@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 1 year ago

Your reality is the one that's grounded in reality.

You can't win, either way. When you move for work or whatever and then say you wish you could see your family and old friends more, you get the same shitty response: well, you didn't have to choose to move away. Or if you complain that your landlord keeps putting up the rent, you get told, 'why don't you just buy', as if the bank doesn't just put up the mortgage if it's even an option. It's almost like capitalism loves liberal individualism, where every societal fault can be blamed on the individual for not taking better choices.