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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. A showerthought should offer a unique perspective on an ordinary part of life.

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i’m doing it because I want to make the fediverse more friendly place, in hopes of making it more welcoming for new users, and the nicer place in general. But I wonder how much is just less bots.

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[–] Xeknos@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I get the same sense. It has somewhat of a nostalgic "we're all in this together" feeling that using the internet in the mid/late-90's had, and the updoots appear to be a side-effect of that.

[–] Landmammals@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 1 year ago

I just upvote to make the posts go away. I unchecked "show read posts" and upvoting keeps my feed fresh.

[–] Arotrios@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Mods are certainly nicer, that's for sure, and thus far, except in in ugly instances, everyone here has been intelligent and thoughtful, even in disagreement.

I think that federation here really helps - seems like the toxicity seems naturally get siloed as instances defederate from bad actors and users are blocked, and it really dilutes the impact a power-tripping mod can have on content, as it's far to easy to find another relevant community or instance that will accept your post.

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[–] Malde@feddit.de 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Oh how I wonder how the comments will be with this streisand effect

[–] BB69@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Nah, the main internet hive minds still exist.

I’m frequently downvoted for saying anything positive about my Tesla.

[–] borlax@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

playing victim is something a tesla driver would do tbh.

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[–] Default_Defect@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

I've already seen some, lets say disagreeable people floating around, but the moderators seem to be doing well to take care of it. Nothing is wrong with someone that has an opposing view, but being unnecessarily combative or straight up an asshole is too much.

[–] tired_n_bored@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

I feel some redditors have the downvote button as the sole mean of power in their lives. There are some who massively downvote to the point it's concerning

[–] Gutotito@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Typically, yes, but the brigaders have found their way here, so don't expect it to last long.

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[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

I find everyone more open to discussion here and not snippy.

I wonder if it was just that Reddit was really polarized by the The Donald segment of its population and what happened with that community,, which don't seem to have come over here, since that made things rather hostile on Reddit. Whatever we are politically here seems to be pretty quiet this far, other than agreeing the insane stuff Republicans are doing in the US.

[–] SaltyLemon@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] Dark_Blade@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I’ll admit, I’ve had far better experiences here than I have on Reddit; Lemmings aren’t as prone to argue on nonsensical topics as Redditors are.

That being said, there are still more than a few nasties here.

[–] soulifix@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (4 children)

For the most part, yes. But I have noted lately that I do get some snarky people coming in with dishonest and bad faith responses. They're at least not as rampant as it would've been on Reddit. It's discouraging and demoralizing when you've got, what feels like, 100 people downvoting you to hell and 50 of them are swiping at you before deleting their accounts and doing it again because they're of the tribal mindset and you've somehow offended a part of the hive.

[–] wrenn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago

Yeah in the last week or so I've noticed an uptic in snark / downright rude responses compared to when I joined ~2 months ago

I hope the trend does not continue

[–] Gorbachof@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I get a lot of that from the .ml instance users

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[–] wtry@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

There's a lot less of us, we can't lose anyone.

[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 4 points 1 year ago

Haha prove it, bitch! I'm upvoting the hell out of you...

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