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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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[โ€“] SolNine@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

I don't really care... Reddit is constantly spamming me with follow bots from Only Fans, and I have never posted in a NSFW sub.

I'm also hopeful the way this is structured we will see a bit better moderation of servers/subs.

[โ€“] arefx@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

If I didn't see this coming from a lightyear away maybe I would be, but it's been obvious since at least 2016 the direction reddit was going.

[โ€“] _Stalwart_@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Not sad, just disappointed. They could have the perfect app and they ruined it, all just for more money.

[โ€“] caffeineplease@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

In some ways, absolutely. I have distinct memories of finding the perfect solution to a problem I had, discovering a major headline, and more.

[โ€“] exRedditor@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Definitely! I will miss my late-night reading and scrolling. Also, getting invested in comment sections and learning new things from strangers. I will miss Apollo so much.

[โ€“] aMalayali@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm from the state of Kerala in India. We had 4-5 active n quite decent subreddits on the state, local memes n all.
People are moving into lemmy, but many might not. Some might stay away from reddit, even after the blackout ends. Overall, I think they were fun people to interact with and since it's not sure whether an equivalent community will be built up here, it's sort of a loss.

[โ€“] Ataraxia@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

No. All I got from reddit was negative interactins and videos of decapitations... I think this is a good time to get away from that place.

[โ€“] pyska@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Life is full of cycles. Every beginning has an end. And we are currently in a new beginning.

Years ago I would be heartbroken. So many good communities lost. So many posts erased. But this is for the better, I think. This time, let's rebuild those same communities stronger, and better.

Open-source is the future, and I'm willing to invest my time on it.

[โ€“] Arklese1zure@lemmy.one 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think what breaks my heart even more than the whole mess about 3rd party apps is that people are not going to care in a couple weeks, and just revert to reddit. Everyone just wants to go back to how things were.

There's gonna be a bunch of abandoned accounts here.

I hope I'm wrong.

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Absolutely. I had 86k karma, and wasted 3-4 years on there...

Not that much compared to some people but I like to think that I contributed a lot of content to the site.

Now I saw this crap and decided to move.

[โ€“] potatoseus@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I like that it's back to small communities. Like Reddit once was.

[โ€“] Sabata11792@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Had an account for 11 years but lurked for a few before. Yes. I been expecting it for years since its been declining but still going to miss it.

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[โ€“] kalipike@lemmy.one 3 points 1 year ago

I'm excited to be diving into the federated side of things, but yeah. I've been an avid user of Reddit as a discussion board since the old days. There are some great technical communities there. Love the platform, but am struggling to deal with it any longer.

[โ€“] nikmis@lemmy.click 3 points 1 year ago

I haven't mourned the loss of social media since I left my myspace account. That was my first love

[โ€“] milkytoast@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

I'm mostly sad about losing the communites i loved, for which I have not yet found a comarable one on lemmy. r/cars and r/cartalk mostly

[โ€“] Lumilias@pawb.social 3 points 1 year ago

Honestly yes, I had been using Reddit since at least 2010 and I was a strong forum user before that. Losing the community hurts, and fuck spez for forgetting his roots.

[โ€“] Mantis7818@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

yes absolutely, found so many new hobbies just browsing/wasting time on reddit, let's hope that carries over to lemmy.

[โ€“] heartlessevil@lemmy.one 3 points 1 year ago

A little but it's not like we didn't know this was coming. I mean, Lemmy was made because they recognized that centralized platforms all follow the same cycle.

[โ€“] Cylinsier@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

Honestly not really. I am not fully abandoning reddit either but in my case it's less about a boycott and more the fact that I almost exclusively access reddit on my phone and I find the official app genuinely too frustrating to use. This isn't even like an anger thing, I literally can't figure the piece of shit out. So once Relay is dead I am just going to be visiting reddit way, way less. From my perspective this wasn't my choice, reddit has forced me out. But for a good few years now I have been looking for an excuse to branch out. It's been a toxic cesspool of fascist enabling for some time so I am actually a little grateful this is happening now. I needed a little push to get myself off their platform for the most part. And so far the Lemmyverse looks pretty promising to me.

I feel like Iโ€™ve been evicted from a house I loved and Iโ€™m kinda struggling with this feeling

Hmm~ I guess I feel sad a little, yeah. Reddit was a pretty cool place. Still is if you hang in the right communities. But I do most of my browsing using a mobile app as of late and if they're killing off RIF and Apollo, I might as well look elsewhere. I also feel a little optimistic about this "migration" slowly taking place, since this time it's not out of some knee-jerk reaction to admins banning some problematic subreddits, spawning places like Voat.

And the federated, open-source nature of Lemmy/Kbin/Mastodon reminds me of how a group of friends can create their own Discord server.

[โ€“] OttoVonNoob@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

I'm used to the layout of RIF and my niche subreddits NCD/Ukraine Conflict, NBA but I'm posting here and trying to add to the community. Hoping for a better mobile app one day though:X

[โ€“] AmazingTim22@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

I think a lot of us are going to be going through reddit-withdrawal/detox over the next month. It's going to be tough.

[โ€“] KiofKi@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago

Yes, I do. Reddit was a great source for troubleshooting and interesting knowledge. But without the drama and the resulting digital diaspora I would have never found out about lemmy.

It's complicated. joined in 2018 right before they introduced new reddit and even back then there was a stigma reddit was "getting bad". However, reddit has been the best place for me to discover new things and the niche communities and interests were really great. I use an extension (that will surely die alongside the 3rd party apps) to find reddit comments associated with any youtube video that made my browsing really great.

The thing that makes me most upset is how they pulled out the rug from so many people and then acted like it was the people on top of the rug's fault it was pulled.

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