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[–] Maerman@beehaw.org 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hi, I'm four babies in a trenchcoat. My interests include grown-up things like businessing and adulting. I am definitely an adult. Ignore the first sentence.

[–] ramius345@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago

Vincent Adultman :-)

[–] BobQuasit@beehaw.org 16 points 1 year ago

Hi! I'm not just a Reddit refugee, but an everything refugee. Or at least, that's how it feels. I've been online since the mid-80s, and I've seen platform after platform be acquired and burnt down under me. I'm pretty much used to it by this point.

That doesn't mean I like it.

I'm an old-time geek. Huge bibliophile, particularly fond of old science fiction, fantasy, mysteries, children's books, YA, classics, and humor. Oh, add graphic novels and manga to the list. I'm also a long time tabletop RPG player and GM. My system of choice is the Avalon Hill edition of RuneQuest 3; my RQ site might be the oldest one still existing. Of course I play other systems as well. I'm into deep role-playing, and would definitely like to find people who are interested in that sort of thing!

My primary activity over on Reddit was recommending books. I have a resource of nearly a thousand book recommendations that I have created over the years. Hoping to be able to make recommendations on Lemmy, too.

What else? I'm a pretty good public speaker, and was an invited program participant (i. e. panelist) at a regional New England science fiction convention for over 25 years. I'm an atheist, but I advocate tolerance and understanding between atheists and theists (and yes, I've done panels on that topic too; they were great).

I was a redhead when I had hair, with a redheaded son. I'm the single divorced father of a newly-adult son. I'm currently unattached. Oh, and I'm apparently demisexual.

I live in Massachusetts, USA. I like cats, cooking, walking, and well-written TV and movies. I've been refining my grilling techniques for about 35 years now, on a lifelong quest to make the perfect burger.

[–] toshmonaut@beehaw.org 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm yet another reddit refugee. Just wanted everyone to know that there's a combination emoji for a bee wearing a cowboy hat:

Beehaw brother

[–] kalanggam@beehaw.org 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I hope you know this emoji has made it to the Discord 🤭 Welcome to Beehaw!

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[–] emptyother@beehaw.org 11 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Hi, im a redditor. Probably won't be for long though.

Im a c# and typescript developer, computer enthusiast, avid book and comic reader, and a fantasy and scifi fan. Im very introverted and agoraphobic, unskilled at social stuff, badly overweight and less-than-optimally-active, and just started on anti-depressants. Other than that im an utterly boring person.

[–] Moneymunkie@beehaw.org 12 points 1 year ago

Ahhhh I know the pain bud, I've struggled with that myself as well, in a better spot than I was though still a bit of derp. Felt like I was a complete snoozefest of a person and that I was pretty unlikeable, depression is a total bitch like that.

Don't mean you're a boring person though, like it seems you enjoy a nice mix of stuff and there ain't no shortage of folk on here who dig things like programming, comics, etc as well on here and folk are pretty chill and welcoming from what I've seen so far too.

Credit where credit is due though, its a really difficult thing trying to live your life with depression hanging over you, but hey you've still gone and made a post and are starting on anti-depressants, these are some pretty awesome big steps even if they don't particular feel like it right now :)

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[–] Smiley@kbin.social 10 points 1 year ago

Hello there! I'm Smiley, lovely to meet you all. (✿◡‿◡)

Like a lot of new people here I'm a Reddit refugee. I've always been a lurker so making posts and commenting is rather daunting, though from what I've seen this community is really nice. :D
I look forward to posting my art, photography and cat pics! 🎨📸🐈💖

[–] SugarApplePie@beehaw.org 10 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Heya everyone. Found this place when I was looking for Reddit alternatives after getting the shut down message in Apollo. Checked the list of alternatives on a subreddit and was immediately grossed out by transphobic sites and fucking VOAT of all places being in the list, so randomly running into this place after that was very relieving.

Big into tabletop RPGs, started with Pathfinder 1st edition a long time ago but have mostly been playing D&D 5th edition with some sprinklings of OSR and PbtA-influenced games (well, game, singular. Blades in the Dark is super fun though!) Like most tabletop fans probably, I'm also into fantasy/sci-fi media.

Happy weekend!

[–] BobQuasit@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

Looks like there are quite a few people into TTRPGs around here! Maybe we should have an LFG community?

[–] goat@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

voat's been dead for years. it was a great place to troll the losers there though.

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[–] GossipGuyXOXO@beehaw.org 8 points 1 year ago

Hey guys I made a post. This is my first post and will probably be making more posts if the vibe is right.

[–] modifier@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 year ago

I'm modifier, and until yesterday, reddit was my only social network-ish thing, and where I wasted much of the last 10 years.

My 30s are in my rear view mirror but feel closer than they appear.

I am married to my best friend, I work in travel and travel a lot for work and fun, I am sexually adventurous, intellectually curious, and musically promiscuous.

A number of cats live with me and graciously accept my offerings of food and adoration. When I'm not adoring them, I'm either reading, playing video games, or doing something related to maps or flags, though I've found that adoring cats is an activity that stacks well with many other activities.

[–] Deestan@beehaw.org 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yo!

Software developer and gamer. Started on the Commodore 64 with both and never stopped.

Having been through several tech enshittification cycles, I've long been wondering when Reddit would be too "meh" for me. That happened earlier this week, when I decided that Lemmy was more the tech and community I was looking for. Planned to leave gracefully during June.

Then I saw the AMA and... That set off my "Fuck This Shit with a Vengeance" so currently coding up a script to make my Reddit account die very ungracefully.

[–] emptyother@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

I too started on C64! Though in my case it was as late as '92 when a seven year young kid got an already old C64 with cassette player, a manual, and no games. Sometimes one gotta make ones own fun, literally.

[–] MayonnaiseArch@beehaw.org 7 points 1 year ago

Hi, I'm an architect and I eat too much mayonnaise. Used to be on reddit and forums and bbses and I found my way here. I love reading scifi but I wasn't too active on reddit because of the enders game brownshirts. It's nice being here

[–] green_witch@beehaw.org 7 points 1 year ago

Hello, I'm green_witch!

I'm a travel-weary drifter from the festering ruins of "that place", where I spent most of my time lurking.

I enjoy herbalism, mycology, bushcraft, botany, nature, and consider myself a student therein. I'm unfortunately pretty timid, and my grasp on language is tenuous at best, but I'm trying to open up more and (hopefully) be a part of a community.

I hope we can all treat each other well and make something neat together.

[–] OmnipotentEntity@beehaw.org 7 points 1 year ago

Hi, I'm Omni. Older cis het white dude. Likes math. Not as dipshitty as the previous two sentences imply, I hope.

In a previous life, I wrote a moderately successful indie game. Currently, working part time in R&D for a small nuclear engineering company, and spending the rest of my time in independent study. Currently working on group theory.

[–] Nairners@beehaw.org 6 points 1 year ago

Hey everyone! Thought I'd add to the ever growing pile of Reddit refugees. In all seriousness I have been watching in horror at how reddit has been declining over the last few years and the 3rd party app debacle has finally forced me out into what seems a much healthier and happier community. Can't wait to get to chat to you all!

[–] Cosmonaut_Collin@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Hey guys, I am another one of the reddit refugees. I mostly used reddit to look at memes, get news about the us economy, view world news, and stay in the loop with gaming news. I can't wait to find new communities to join and experience the joy of a social media site in its infancy. Even on reddit, it seemed like all of the cool stuff was the early years of the site. Hopefully I can witness the famous or infamous posts this site will produce.

[–] themoleofdoom@feddit.de 6 points 1 year ago

Hey there. I'm yet another redditor that has joined lemmy today to see what the world looks like beyond the walls of the pile of crap that my former digital home has turned into. Still learning how things work around here but definitely like the general vibe of things.

[–] gospelofjohnny@beehaw.org 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hey everyone! I’m excited to be here. I’m still learning how everything works but I look forward to the future! I have a question though, if I’m interested in, say, working out, I can’t seem to find any communities. Does anyone know of where I can find a workout community, or do I need to join a different instance outside of beehaw?

[–] Deestan@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

Hi!

If you find the community in another instance, you can subscribe to that community from here. The sidebar of the community should have some rough instructions.

[–] ratboy@beehaw.org 6 points 1 year ago

Hello I'm a nonbinary/masc leaning lil guy. I work with high risk populations at a non profit in the pnw. Feels weird to not be a programmer or something, seems that's what all the bee-hawers and fediverse users are into these days. Um, I'm autistic and have adhd, in my mid 30s, like to ride my bike, play pikmin bloom, garden, and take up hobbies quickly and then leave them for like 3 years. Oh I am also a really yuge music nerd, like, actually. Mmmmmmmyeap

[–] Olon97@beehaw.org 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Here from Reddit (Apollo user).

I am a HS Biology teacher with a previous career in game development. Very involved in gamification and VR in education (creating in VR, the apps that can be used in a classroom are lacking at the moment).

If it dates me, I had a Digg account back in the day and have spent more time on MySpace than Facebook.

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[–] ffmike@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago

I dunno if I really qualify as a "Reddit refugee" as I wasn't particularly active there...a few dozen posts, a few hundred comments, all now deleted. But it was the current reddit mess that got me looking around for other communities and finding Lemmy & Beehaw. I've been online and in various communities since basically forever (Usenet, Puppy [the easier version of Fido to run on a first-generation PC], MajorBBS, CompuServe, The WELL, IRC, etc. etc.) but I promise to try not to play the "get off my lawn" card too often.

I had a medley of jobs for the most part in the tech space, and I've been happily retired for a few years now, because my DW has a good job with a BigCo and I prefer keeping the house clean to writing more code for other people. These days I mostly just try to get outside and hike as much as I can, but I like having at least a tiny bit of online community available.

Politically I lean pretty far to the left, having spent a chunk of my youth fairly active in anarchist circles. These days I'm more of a pragmatist who just wants people to be nice to each other.

It's possible that someone will recognize this username from elsewhere, in which case: yes, it's me, and no, I don't feel like discussing things from decades in the past.

[–] meldroc@infosec.pub 5 points 1 year ago

Hi, my name is meldroc, and I'm a Reddit refugee.

Currently, I work for a brewery doing GIS work - making maps that help sell beer. I'm in my 40s, in the LGBTQIA community, enjoy reading, gaming, retrocomputing, technology, dogs & cats...

[–] MeowKittyWow@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Howdy! I'm a mid-30s game developer. In a past life (my 20s) I was an astronomer, but academia sucks so I gtfo'd. I like to ride bikes, but I fell out of the habit over the pandemic; just getting back into it now. I enjoy boomer shooters, and indie games. Gay and trans and loving it.

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[–] Dalek_Thal@aussie.zone 5 points 1 year ago

G'day all, Dalek_Thal here, having walked through a door to a new dimension by doing midichlorians.

Definitely looking forward to what Lemmy brings, my hope is that I'll get my old subreddits back, given time.

[–] IcedCoffeeBitch@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago

Hi! I'm a trans woman who likes for the most part gaming stuff and programming(said every Redditor trans woman ever!)

I also like:

  • Music (Mostly metal and progressive rock, with some pop on the side). I'm also learning to play the guitar.
  • Animals, especially cats and dogs, in that order 😼
  • Transformers, been an important part of my early childhood.
  • Reading, though I haven't been able to really get into that hobby yet
  • Watching TV, for the most part animation, Star Wars, and some others. Favorite series, in no order: Gravity Falls, The Owl House, Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul, Transformers Prime, Clone Wars
  • Movies are cool too. From the top of my head I like Nobody, the first Monty Python(haven't watched the others), Lord of the Rings(recently watched Two Towers for the first time, gonna watch Return of the King soon), Into/Across The Spiderverse, all Star Wars movies except sequels and most of the Disney Rennaisance stuff. I used to like Marvel movies but I got burnt out.
  • Favorite videogames of all time include: Titanfall 2, Portal 2, Kirby Superstar Ultra, Kirby and the Amazing Mirror, Sonic Mania, Earthbound, Mother 3, Super Mario Galaxy, Celeste, and some others I may have forgotten.
[–] Nix@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Glad to see that I am not the only one a bit lost but excited with this transition from reddit.

Hopefully this fediverse-thing will be way better and more resilient than everything past.

I was finally able to subscribe to other instances. YAY!

[–] plactagonic@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Can I use really bad introduction line?

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[–] pumerogo@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago

Hi! :)

Like so many others, I came from Reddit and I'm gonna stay here. It's nice.

I'm somewhere between 30 and 40, a writer and full time nerd from Germany, I stream and game, I paint and draw and I have two wonderful cats. I like pen & paper rpgs, games in general (except horror), reading, knitting, crocheting, animals, manga, comics, music and listening to the same song on repeat. Also, I probably forgot something.

Thanks for having me here!

[–] azureeight@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

Hoy~ I'm not really a refugee from anywhere in particular, I've been slowly squeezed out of social spaced for a few years now. I love people, but it's hard to want to participate when you get shouted down. Hopefully I've found a nice place here with y'all, it definitely feels inviting!

I have a lot of labels that can be of various levels of usefulness, but I think if those closest were to to be asked about me "kind" is the first word that would come to mind. I took the "do unto others" thing really seriously, even if I ditched the rest.

I'm queer as the day is long and I partially communicate in memes. Most of my time not gaming, I casually work on my dream game in my head. Just a classic nerd from the 90s.

[–] ramius345@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

I'm here from reddit like everyone else. Software developer who likes building PCs, retro computers, sffpc, water-cooling.

[–] iamhazel@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I apologize for the list of labels but I'm an atheist, autistic, agoraphobic, asexual, epileptic, trans, homeschooled-until-college 28-year-old cat lady.

If you met me you'd think I'm a relatively normal person though!

I'm a theatre kid working as a data analyst in local government healthcare.

I'm trying to learn Unreal Engine 5 but I'm struggling to keep going even though it's a lifelong dream. Though I've made good and rewarding progress and I took all next week off to let myself hyperfocus without getting fired.

The Wall by Pink Floyd is my favorite album ever, and the first piece of art to make me sob. Every. Damn. Time.

[–] super_user_do@feddit.it 4 points 1 year ago

Hi! I'm Peppe, just your average end user with a little bit of poltiical conscience

[–] ZenGrammy@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

Hi all! I'm another Reddit refugee I guess. I just couldn't abide by their policies any longer so I deleted my 13 years of comments and my account and here I am.

I'm "just" a boring suburban housewife with an awesome dog and progressive political views these days, but I used to work in medical billing and I've raised two boys and two stepkids who are still in my life even though I left their dad many years ago. Five years ago my body decided to rebel against me and make me have a stroke. I am largely healed from that but it took away my active hobbies and I'm technically disabled due to chronic pain and some memory issues.

I have Huntington's Disease. I'm pre-symptomatic right now. I inherited it from my mother, who is currently living at a nursing home. I'd be stoked to find people who could relate to the whole genetic disorder thing. It's a heavy burden sometimes.

I've been active on forums on and off since the late 90's. I used to be a mod back when that was a new thing. I enjoy cooking and solitude and playing The Sims. I have a wonderful husband who also loves solitude, and we enjoy our solitude in the same house but different rooms most of the time.

I keep in touch with my friends and family through digital means for the most part because I can't drive. I meditate and loosely follow the Buddhist principles of letting go of negative emotions when possible and appreciating what is around me. I am a work in progress.

[–] Gigagoblin@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

Henlo, I am Gigagoblin! 30's, neurospicy, non-binary, queer. Kinda over all the labels, honestly, just trying to exist. I'm very low-energy & social situations make me spill spaghetti everywhere, but it's easier to connect online! I kinda have huge trouble getting started on things, as well as finishing them & my interests come & go. That said, I'm into writing (poetry & lyrics, mostly), music, movies (especially horror!), cyberpunk, fantasy, spooky things & Digimon. There are manga & anime I enjoy, but I'm not like, obsessed with the mediums. I also enjoy all kinds of gaming, but it's hard to commit when your brain can suddenly decide The Thing is no longer sparking joy.

Essentially, I'm trying my best in the framework I was given. I know I've treated people poorly in the past due to my own pain. It's easy to take it out on others when you're miserable & without hope. Thing is though, I'm also a parent to the most wonderful child & I need to be the kind of person she deserves.

It turns out I'm better off without the people I'd been hanging out with for 15 years, but it also means I'm basically friendless at this point. I don't usually mind the solitude, but sometimes the silence becomes deafening. I guess it's because it's no longer really a choice? Anyway, looking forward to chatting with people here! Apologies if I'm immediately coming across as super depressing, I seem to always be "going through some stuff" & I'd rather paint an honest picture of myself!

[–] distractedcactus@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

Hello and howdy to everyone! I'm another of the recently reddit-less, hoping to find a good community here and (figuratively) leave the place a little better than I find it.

[–] PurrJPro@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

An all pronouns using aroace agender with a deep love of tech, videogames, writing, art, and gender non conformity. I recently graduated from high school, and I am planning on going to tech/writing. I'm also planning on building my own PC soon! It'll hopefully help me understand technology a lot more :3

[–] case_when 4 points 1 year ago

Hi all! I'm a scientist and R programmer based in the UK. I like data, and history, and thrillers. I draw pictures. I play board games, especially chess and Go. I'm learning Chinese. Nice to be here!

[–] Anissem@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Former Digg / Redditor, glad to be a Lemming? Do we have a term yet? Ex video game developer, avid gamer and dog lover. Currently a freelance video editor. Really enjoying the vibe here and with Mlem it’s been more a less lateral move for me from Apollo. I don’t mind how new Mlem is and it’ll be fun to see the changes pop up day to day. Keep up the good work everyone!

[–] Canadian_Bakin@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Hi all! Another one of those pesky "reddit-fugees” as it were. It was my only sort of “social media” which I mostly used to post pictures of things I baked and try to have positive interactions with other online community members. So needless to say I’m glad I found this server/instance and I’m looking forward to participating in the community.

Beeeeeeeeeeeehawwwwwwwww!!! 🍁

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[–] MilliaStrange@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

Hi! I'm a nonbinary (they/them/theirs) programmer and actor. I left Reddit recently and am having a nice time on Beehaw being gay and having good conversations with people. This community has been a great way for me to get started in the fediverse. Thanks for having me!

I enjoy cooking, fighting games, live music, Vampire: The Masquerade and my cat Izzy.

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