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[–] Juice@midwest.social 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I tell jokes. I don't really do small talk. But, yes most conversations are deeply personal and deeply philosophical. I have lots of great friends, a lovely wife, a good job and fantastic kids. So yes, you can do just fine with almost no small talk. Become yourself, not what some unimaginative poster on the internet desperate for validation of their opinions thinks people should or shouldn't become.

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[–] tacosplease@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

The weird shit in my head is not suitable for public utterance. I can give you engaging statements or appropriate statements, but one statement that is both requires far more effort.

Small talk with strangers, acquaintances, neighbors is draining even when I like those people. Those closest to me do not require appropriate statements, so with them it never feels like small talk.

[–] Knightfox@lemmy.one 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Personally I think that small talk is also regional. Some places small talk might be discouraged at a store while other places it might be encouraged. The same might be for the subway, a restaurant, the bathroom, etc, depending on the country or culture it may be totally ok or exceptionally discouraged.

[–] fallingcats@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I really fucking hope there isn't a place on earth where smalltalk on public transit is encouraged.

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[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 month ago

Breathe, son.

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 6 points 1 month ago

Some people view certain talk as smalltalk but im always up to know about the weather or bad traffic or anything I can avoid or indulge in if I can.

[–] bastion@feddit.nl 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Absofuckinglutely. This is what I do, and what she does, though our methods of exploration vary.

[–] repungnant_canary@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Yeah, that's pretty much how it looks like for me

[–] minorkeys@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago
[–] prosp3kt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago

Actually I have this kind of conversations. I don't care so much about monkey problems

[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 month ago

I love small talk. It's just noises that communicate emotion or very basic information, and it has a script!

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